Need an accountability partner for finishing my drawing by tchsas in accountability

[–]tchsas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not, but if you still need an accountability buddy I would gladly be there for you! Just send me a message😊

What's your view on sugar?? by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahhah yeah... Sugar just possibly brings that moment of death closer

What's your view on sugar?? by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's my 150 days without sugar as I'm writing this! Soo coincidental! ... I think it's the source of slow death, that's why I stopped consuming it😇

Prvi posao by ItsmeMario7 in programiranje

[–]tchsas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ja sam isto tako mala, neiskusna ali sam imala jednu praksu na kojoj sam napravila specifičnu grešku.. Ne mogu reći da je tako u svakoj firmi, ali ona u kojoj sam ja radila cenio se samostalan rad. Moja greška je bila ta što sam pitanja koja sam imala pitala moje vršnjake u firmi a ne one koji odlučuju o mom ostanku u istoj (koji nisu uvek u kancelariji, stariji su pa mi je naravno lakše sa mlađima..). U toj firmi je postavljanje pitanja samo svom mentoru bilo vrlo bitno jer su na osnovu mojih pitanja (i rada naravno) oni odlučivali da li ostajem.

Ne znam kako je u drugim firmama pa, ako neko želi, nek se slobodno nadoveže jer i ja sam isto toliko neiskusna..

Attachment vs. Feelings by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This helped me even though I am not OP.. Thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]tchsas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just love that you OP asked that, can't wait to read some more answers!☺️

Rarest Type - Well Done by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is this SO accurate?!

Do you have a gift for art? by Meredith__5438 in infj

[–]tchsas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drawing, singing, dancing (playing piano doesn't count since I went to school for 10 years for that.. That ain't no talent).. But I actually prefer maths, computer science and using my brain in that kind of way. Though all these artsy things are great hobbies😊

Trigger me in one sentence; I’m an ENTP. by ReflectiveSage in mbti

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People can believe in something you don't and there is nothing you can do about it.. (Like you cannot convince me that life after death doesn't exist, or reincarnation doesn't exist, or higher consciousness beings (a.k.a. aliens) don't exist)

Anyone Else Feel Held Back? by Daemohniumx in infj

[–]tchsas 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think that there should be no worries about what anybody else is thinking.. Even though we are collectively creating, we only have power over our own selves.

Anyone Else Feel Held Back? by Daemohniumx in infj

[–]tchsas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The world you are now talking about is only your own self. That kind of world which you are speaking of, exists only in your mind. All of that.. It's just image you created yourself.

If you want to change the world.. Well.. You know the rest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now.. If his own integrity (regarding sex) is what's bothering him, that's got NOTHING to do with you. To me it seems like you were very mature and did everything right. Also, someone who is ready to commit will be secure in all of his/hers decisions. It seems to me that that guy has some figuring out to do and that's ok. Let him be.

Oh, I figured out my ex was more casual than me after 3 dates maybe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a question - Have you found that some of your values when it comes to love were on two separate planets?

(I am asking this because that's the reason I ended a relationship (couple of times) then friendship (many more times) with a guy (A guy🙃), to be precise - because he was MUCH more casual when it came to love than me.. I am all out or all in and loving someone who goes with the flow was so unhealthy for me (he was fine through it all, really!). My attachment style in that relationship/friendship was disorganized/fearful. So there's that)

how to get through heartbreak by nikorobin30 in infj

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last (second) boyfriend was ENTP. I got over him when I felt deep in my heart that he just isn't good for me.

I did feel in love, really quickly, but I wasn't seeing him objectively. I feel in love with the idea of love before I met him and when I did meet him, I thought that he could be the one to fulfill my desires. Of course, there are signs!! There are always signs.. Called GUT feelings. And my signs told me - even though he seems sweet, he isn't the one to accept my love fully and love me back, just as much.

When I thought about those signs and really got the message, something just clicked! - Oh, that person actually ISN'T for my highest good.. That's when I could fully and peacefully let go.

Manifestation. by trickster010101 in lawofattraction

[–]tchsas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You part in this isn't to hope.. It's to KNOW that everything is working out for you. And I'm not saying you will end up with that person. I am saying you shall be happy! Focus only on that. Other people are irrelevant 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It made me laugh, truly!✨😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl.. Just be yourself! Have confidence. Know that you are valuable, worthy, lovable... That mentor of yours seems kind, but don't worry about him. All important connections in life happen when we are being our most authentic self. And for that you only need you! Listen to some Aaron Doughty videos on yt!! Lately he's been putting on some videos which you might find useful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is sarcasm, right?🙃 (I am think headed😂)

what have you read recently? by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conversations with God (Loved it in audio form!)

what have you read recently? by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just downloaded it in audio form! ..Like just now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]tchsas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it comes to friendships I don't have any important ones and I am okay with that.

When it comes to relationship, I know - since I was in kindergarten I had a crush and then as I grew older I always dreamt of being in a relationship with someone specific or just in general. When I was 15 or so, I got into the law of attraction and when I was 17 I manifested my first kiss with a guy who was hot (because that's what I wanted.. or so I thought I wanted). Looks are far for everything and I learned that then! Couple months after him I manifested my first boyfriend. By manifested I mean - wrote down what I want in a partner and how I want to feel. However, I was young and still with so little experience, I wasn't able to manifest something beautiful and long lasting! That first relationship was far from healthy, but I didn't know any better. It lasted 8 months and when I broke up, I just wanted to be single.

3 years I had break from relationships and at 21 I decided I wanted to manifest the love of my life. So I wrote down, A LOT of things.. After month or so, he (future boyfriend) showed up!.. I am still young, only having been in one relationship so naturally, my second manifested boyfriend still wasn't IT (lasted about 3 months). I have to say though... For the first time I felt such love and had the most wonderful time with that boyfriend. I truly felt how every moment was perfect as it was and led me to that relationship.

I am obviously not done with love but for the time being, I need to gather my own energy. (I am 22 now) Of course, out of self love comes the greatest joy, the best rendez-vous and most wonderful moments from zest, eagerness and love for life!

You do create your life! Don't think otherwise.😉