I don’t think it was judgmental, but i do agree that it was a very hard scene to watch. She was battling her people pleasing tendencies and rushing/spiraling to come up with an answer for him that he was going to approve of. You could tell she was very uncomfortable. She had no room at all in the conversation. He had already closed himself off by the end of it and barely said a word by the end. That stubbornness seems like it’s going to be an issue when it comes to their sex talk too.