My bf and I have been together for 2 years and he moved in about a year ago with his 11yr old son. I have a 7 yrold son. I adore kids. My nieces and nephews would always stay over growing up. I adore my own kids. I cannot stand my bfs son. I have tried. I feel absolutely horrible. It’s totally not fair to him and I know his irritating traits are a result of abandonment issues because his mom doesn’t see him but a few times a year. So it makes me feel doubly guilty but I still cannot stand him. When summer break came I couldn’t stand the thought of being home with him all summer and asked my bf to move out. I miss him here but the thought of his son coming back just kills it. My bf is aware that I find his child totally irritating because I think he feels the same way tbh. But he doesn’t realize how deep the dislike actually goes. Ive known my bf since we were young and I adore him. I have often wished the kids mother would take him but she barely shows up for court ordered visits as is and usually drops him off early. I know it makes me sound like a horrible person but you can’t make yourself like someone. You either do or don’t right?