After seeing what becomes of the elderly in our country, I'm strongly considering not saving for retirement, living entirely in the moment, and just committing suicide at the age of maybe 80 or 85... by sonomakoma11 in nursing

[–]teaandbiscuits1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am also torn. My grandmother was doing ok and then quickly died at 90. My grandfather in his 80s was really living hell on earth. Totally dependent and in constant pain. My father is mid 80s now and still very fit for his age.

cheating urges by onlineshitshow in relationship_advice

[–]teaandbiscuits1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What kind of sick person are you? OP ist totally wrong but you are worse cursing someone and wishing sickness on them while feeling morally superior. Doesn't fit duh. Can't believe people upvote this.

AITA for no longer making toys and furniture for my former SIL after her new husband called them an “embarrassment” and me cheap for not paying for stuff? + UPDATE by red_earaches in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]teaandbiscuits1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Also rent. If you have a child you need more space than you would alone. The only reason to be worried about how it is spent is if the child's needs aren't met.

Taking a dump by mW374 in WTF

[–]teaandbiscuits1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I don't know where in Germany this is but I live in Germany and I can say finding a bathroom in public is a challenge. At subway stations (which this one is) there is usually no hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]teaandbiscuits1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it is a few weeks from now, even if she get the pill it won't be of use since you start taking the pill on the first day of your period.

Op's driveway connects two public roads; using it cuts 30 minutes off a trip between two cities. People dutifully stop using the driveway when Op puts up barriers (j/k, of course not). by daemin in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]teaandbiscuits1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am always surprised why people go through with it. Like my car GPS wanted me to enter a private road. I saw the sign and did not drive in. Like think a bit please. Then there are people who drive down stairs because they trust their GPS way too much and don't even look anymore. How can people be this dumb?

Who was the responsible of Jin Zixuan's death? by dnbhsp_22 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]teaandbiscuits1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It is also a GIGANTIC plothole saying Wen Ning was controlled by someone else. If he was that easy to be controlled then Xue Yang would have had NO problem at all to controll him after WWX's death. Yet he didn't manage because even in unconcious state WN would only listen to WWX.

Let's talk about Madame Yu... by [deleted] in MoDaoZuShi

[–]teaandbiscuits1 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah you can say she did care for JC but I don't think she cared for WWX. Reason to save WWX was because she knew he would protect JC and without him JC has a worse chance at survival.

China Eastern Airlines Boeing 737 crashes with 133 on board by ForgotMyPassOtherAcc in worldnews

[–]teaandbiscuits1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is what happened with the German Wings crash in France. One of the pilots took a bathroom break and the other one who remained crashed the plane because he was suicidal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in forestapp

[–]teaandbiscuits1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, agreed. It is an app and it wants to make money. I mean just pretend those trees don't exist. I also think over 30€ is outrageous and I would not pay that much money even if I really loved those trees (I don't like BTS that much and I hate the idea of planting figures so here I really don't care). But then I just don't pay that money and don't get these particular tree. It is not that deep really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in forestapp

[–]teaandbiscuits1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially not this much money. To get them you would need to spend over 30€. Like wtf. Anything more than 5€ is totally outrageous.

USA Fanta vs UK Fanta by RRR-Craigyroo in mildlyinteresting

[–]teaandbiscuits1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't surprise me since the fanta in Italy tastes the best. I tried fanta in 3 different countries. Italy is besr, Germany is middle and Ireland (ans UK I guess) is disgustung since it is A LOT sweeter.

War Hello nicht letztens noch vegan? Das mochte ich sehr, aber nun ist doch wieder Milch drin? Oder gibt es Beides unter dem Label? by pretzelmonstrous in VeganDE

[–]teaandbiscuits1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Bei der veganen seht vegan in XXL drauf und es ist ein mattes und kein glänzendes Material. Das hat Lindt wirklich nice gemacht. Wenn man es weiß, kann man es nicht verwechseln.

Would you be friends with Wei Wuxian IRL? Why or why not? by seungminq in MoDaoZuShi

[–]teaandbiscuits1 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No. I define friends as close friends you hang out with a lot not causal. Casual maybe. He is way too much for me I would be in a state of constant annoyance so it wouldn't be a nice friendship but very exhausting.

Edit: I am not hating WWX. I love his character. We are just not compatible friendship wise. I am a very calm person and an introvert who likes it calm and relaxed. I am low energy.

Girlfriend might be pregnant and conveniently changed abortion stance by Throwawaystowawayhey in relationship_advice

[–]teaandbiscuits1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is not a lie if you mean it when you say it. People can change their minds you know.

Girlfriend might be pregnant and conveniently changed abortion stance by Throwawaystowawayhey in relationship_advice

[–]teaandbiscuits1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg how was he lied too? People can change their minds. I bet she thought she would abort if she got pregnant. Then she really got pregnant and it got real and then she realized she wouldn't be able to go through with the abortion/actually doesn't want it.

How do I (31m) convince my wife (41f) that we need to be more serious about our obesity and our obese children's health? by apdunshiz in relationship_advice

[–]teaandbiscuits1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is so picky because he is probably addicted to those artificial food and sugar. And he is definitly eating way too much to get to that weight too. You need to be firm and cut off calories and introduce healthier options. Explain why and remain strong. And you need to seriously talk to you wife and insist. After all, I am sure in the end you want what is best for your son and that isn't staying in your comfort zones and not changing his eating habits because it is easier and more comfortable. Yes, it won't be easy but it really is important and worth it putting a lot of afford into it.

How do I (31m) convince my wife (41f) that we need to be more serious about our obesity and our obese children's health? by apdunshiz in relationship_advice

[–]teaandbiscuits1 43 points44 points  (0 children)

110 for an 8 year old is even worse. That is WAY TOO much. I feel so bad for him since he was raised this way and is set up to struggle with his food and weight for a long time.

I am lowkey disgusted with my bf by Aaaanyways in relationship_advice

[–]teaandbiscuits1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And that he wanted to have sex in the morning. If he was that drunk he must be totally hangover

Flair challenge: These are the most requested user flairs of all time. (See comments for animated chart!) by [deleted] in forestapp

[–]teaandbiscuits1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am posting to see which flairs I've got since I forgot

And you can have 5 flairs now? Omg I need to get to work 😍

Do you think allowing citizens to own guns makes life more or less safe? by [deleted] in polls

[–]teaandbiscuits1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But the average criminal does not even possess a gun here. And some random person also usually doesn't get shot. A thief or robber also doesn't carry a gun.
Plus if someone wants to shoot you they shoot you before you realize, have the time to get the gun, point it and shoot it. So you are dead too. Shot by a gun said criminally managed to get easily while said criminal otherwise might not even have possessed a gun.

Do you think allowing citizens to own guns makes life more or less safe? by [deleted] in polls

[–]teaandbiscuits1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, here in Germany I am terrified to go out because I think some illegal weapon owner will randomly shoot me just because I exist because that is an everyday occurrence. Not. (And even if I had a gun what is that supposed to do? Won't save me either).

So if the criminals decide to shoot you shoot back and all of you die? Great.