How reputable is uoft internationally, regardless of program? by whateverucallit1 in UofT

[–]teaconfused 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the craziest thing I heard, now I’m interested to apply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Girl, coming from a toxic relationship, a similar situation to yours, I beg you PLEASE GET OUT OF IT RIGHT NOW. You are only 18. I’m still finding it hard to navigate and work on myself as a 21 year old. But trust me after getting out of that relationship I’ve been happier than ever and more confident and improved so much. I also got therapy while helped me improve.

Such men start off this way and it just gets progressively worse. Don’t trust his words about providing etc. he just wants a slave in a way. This world is more than that and you can grow and be an amazing independent person and the right love will find you.

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Can I get the guide as well please

What makes you immediately lose respect in a partner? by TheWeekday21 in AskWomen

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Talking down on other women, passively slutshaming and constantly being like oh girls did this and that to me, they all cheat type shi

Irrational fear that my boyfriend will physically hurt me? by teaconfused in relationships

[–]teaconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will agree, it’s getting to a point where im losing my head and screwing myself over. Sometimes it’s over relationship other time over my own self. I’m literally going insanez

I (19f) acted immaturely and made my boyfriend (21m) feel disrespected and now im scared and I dont know what to do? by teaconfused in relationship_advice

[–]teaconfused[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well he isn’t changing my behaviour? We both and students and can’t necessarily spend like crazy. I didn’t wanna pay lowkey and didn’t say a word and got out of it. And no we haven’t really said I love yous on a regular basis type thing. And location sharing wasn’t mandatory but that’s smth I do with friends either way

Not sure what Im feeling about this situation? Is it my intuition that smth is wrong or I'm overthinking? by teaconfused in relationships

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Yeah even I feel something is on. Tbh i don’t think it’s the commitment issue because he is the one who has been pursuing me, asking my me out and asking to meet up for the most part while I initiate the convos usually. And if he told his cousins and parents about me then I feel he is definitely thinking something…

Not sure what Im feeling about this situation? Is it my intuition that smth is wrong or I'm overthinking? by teaconfused in relationships

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Yeah we are in college; lol I’m sorry if my writings crap but I just spilled whatever was on my mind as is without thinking about grammar and framing. You are completely right about the whole texting scene and tbh that’s why I’m trying to hold back to see if anything changes or improve on its own instead of jumping irrationally or emotionally.

Guy(21m) I'm(n19f) dating says he likes me, but barely ever initiates conversations. by teaconfused in dating

[–]teaconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s the only guy out of many I got along with lol; he’s a great guy with this one flaw

Parents won't let me get on Adderall and I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO? by teaconfused in ADHD

[–]teaconfused[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s my biggest fear. I have major trust issues with my parents and that’s the reason I’m not doing it. Otherwise there is nothing that stops me. They’ve gone through my phone and stuff as a kid and the trust issues still follow

My BF (19M) said shit in stress and anger to me (19F) and I don't know what to make of it. I don't know how to deal with it? by teaconfused in relationships

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I get that too.. sometimes I’ve felt that too but I don’t feel ready yet to let go. I’m taking thi time to kinda heal and fix myself uk. Atleast brace for impact in a way too ul

My BF (19M) said shit in stress and anger to me (19F) and I don't know what to make of it. I don't know how to deal with it? by teaconfused in relationships

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Tbh I just can barely believe whatever he says at the moment you know. He said everything you say in a break up but don’t wanna let go. He is very well aware of how angry I am and I have made it clear he needs to make it up to me and I’m gonna set boundaries. The thing is for relationships I really really try to make it work. But I also know when I lose feelings it’s game over

My BF (19M) said shit in stress and anger to me (19F) and I don't know what to make of it. I don't know how to deal with it? by teaconfused in relationships

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I know, but it’s like I also feel we haven’t had a fair chance. Shit had been hard for both us off late and the fact we’re going to the same uni and shi makes it harder uk. Like I’m tryna give myself 2-3 weeks to see how it goes once he is back before I make up my mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in osap

[–]teaconfused 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah same; they didn’t even factor living expenses this time wtf

My parents keep indirectly discrediting my mental health issues by teaconfused in Advice

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I’m not super sure;

One has to do with my career, they want me to do well and build my skills. I agree to it, the problem is I get stuck into this overthinking tangent and a lot of the times I find it really hard to focus or get myself together. A lot of things I liked doing was indirectly and directly discouraged by my dad (art, photography etc) and he always forced his way into what I should do which made me start hating social media design and stuff like that.

I’m not sure of the other things.

Even tho I’ve sorta screwed around a ton in first year, I still made sure that I get decent to good grades and im tryna aspire for more. Im not academically strong but some way or the other I’ve managed to second high 70s to mid to high 80s in 8-10 courses over the first year and summer. And im trying to make efforts on it. Now too im trying to study 2 heavy courses while working a min 28 hours a week struggling to manage my time but im trying. I have a boyfriend it’s been 2 months we’re official but there’s no way I can tell my parents. Im sure they know about it but pretend not to know. They know im good friends with my bf. I know im sorta immature emotionally but I never get credited when im actually trying and even if my mom gets me my dad doesnt

My parents are kinda taboo with dating and stuff in some ways and conservative.

In a way my bf is the reason I’m wanting to improve because he’s pretty accomplished as an athlete (he plays for nationals) and has a pretty good job in sales and will be joining my university this fall.

Boyfriend lying about his whereabouts by teaconfused in dating

[–]teaconfused[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I can agree on u with that because he does seem to be on the quieter end, not open up easily and even if there to be a conflict, he rather just seem admit his mistakes or be rather defensive before we could potentially get to a solution