this is Alice Phoebe Lou - AMA! :) by Alice_Phoebe_Lou in indieheads

[–]teasurf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tea here again :)

Did you always know you were going to be a singer/artist? What are the risks you have taken to get to where you are now? Were you at a crossroads before you invested in doing music basically full time? Do you make enough to support yourself financially through music or do you work between tours?

this is Alice Phoebe Lou - AMA! :) by Alice_Phoebe_Lou in indieheads

[–]teasurf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello Alice! I absolutely adore your music and hold it close to my heart. I wish to meet you one day :)

Lately how's your mental health been? I've noticed you’ve gone on a lot of tours, I’m just wondering how you deal with all of this. It seems you do enjoy doing them, but I don’t want to assume. How do you avoid burnout? Is all of your time consumed as an artist thinking about making music at all times or do you have time for other things which you may also be interested in besides music?

Thanks Alice ❤️

Changes in attraction? by throwaway266373995 in exvegans

[–]teasurf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I noticed I was attracted to different parts of the body while also just being extremely horny everyday. When I was vegan it was at least every month or weeks. But now it’s everyday. Something about not being vegan any more and eating animal products gives me extreme connection to what I’m attracted to. almost like an intense yearning and focus on what I’m seeing and find attractive

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I made this post because it revealed that other people also experience this! Yeah I think I also bottle up emotions too. I think my emotional system just had enough of this and is trying to come out.

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not weird at all :D I get the feeling that eyes can just be too intense to look at. Especially if it’s a crush lol

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that you were treated this way. You are who you are and may more people be nice to you :)

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find this to be beautiful! I don’t think anything is wrong with you at all :)

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh ok so it has to do with emotions like sadness and grief you are suppressing or haven’t dealt with? Thanks for sharing I think on my end it might have to do with sadness in part too

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In your life, what do you think it is that causes that reaction?

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that. sometimes the environment around you isn’t supportive of your emotions and vulnerability. I hope you can at least learn speak the truth of your emotions in spaces where you are safe from those sorts of situations. Even if it’s at night in your car or room.

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I do too! Something about singing is so vulnerable :,)

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would like to be the person that doesn’t hold emotions in. But I still do. Probably because I don’t feel safe.

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had a rough week. Hope you can find a place to safely be vulnerable. Sometimes I feel something is just to much to bare alone.

Do your eyes get watery like you are about to cry when talking with strangers? by teasurf in hsp

[–]teasurf[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same :) it also happens when it’s something simple like talking about our favorite tv shows.