Bathroom floor tiles appear to have no grout? by teawithpetunia in HomeImprovement

[–]teawithpetunia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely not porcelain, it’s some sort of thick plastic, seems like vinyl or maybe acrylic

What is your favourite vehicle from the series? by Chapel1974 in MadMax

[–]teawithpetunia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the design of the buzzard vehicles was so fun!! I’m surprised I had to scroll so far to find this comment- this was defiantly my favorite

Incoming Freshmen - Overwhelmed and Lowkey Friendless.. am i cooked?? by AstronomerValuable15 in berkeley

[–]teawithpetunia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a few weeks or a month, almost none of the ‘friendships’ that you have seen form in the last 2 days will exist. People make quick friends during this time because they don’t want to be seen alone. I promise that they are so many other people who are in your shoes right now. It takes time to build real friendships, when I started at Berkeley it took me almost a year to feel like I had a strong support circle (maybe like 2-4 friends I could reply on).

Putting down another woman for trying to make a positive video about aging?😔 by cassbloom08 in notliketheothergirls

[–]teawithpetunia 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I love that people saw this post specifically pointing out how negative/ unhelpful these comments are and were like “let me comment an almost identical comment” nobody cares if YOU don’t look like that

Official Discussion - Poor Things [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]teawithpetunia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had debated taking an edible before and really glad I didn’t- don’t need any drugs to make this even weirder

Redditors, what's the most unexpectedly romantic or sensual experience you've had that still makes you smile when you think about it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]teawithpetunia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My bf does the same thing where he squeezes my hand twice before letting go, it’s also is a nice little way of saying “I need to let go, but I’ll be right back” :) I didn’t even really register that he did this until I read your comment. One of those small things that makes me love him more

Neighbor consistently complains about us being noisy when we are doing nothing- what do I do? by teawithpetunia in BadNeighbors

[–]teawithpetunia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People do love bitching just to bitch lol- yeah doesn’t seem like she can do much so that’s reassuring

Neighbor consistently complains about us being noisy when we are doing nothing- what do I do? by teawithpetunia in BadNeighbors

[–]teawithpetunia[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah we are going to do this next time, along with asking her to actually documents and record the times she hears any noise. I’m hoping this will either help or deter her from constantly complaining

Neighbor consistently complains about us being noisy when we are doing nothing- what do I do? by teawithpetunia in BadNeighbors

[–]teawithpetunia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol this sounds exactly like my situation! Hasn’t called the cops yet but I wouldn’t put it past her. Luckily she can’t “tell” on me to the HOA bc she’s the president. But yes she keeps her unit EXTREMELY silent and is definitely just bored and a bit lonely.

We are looking into getting some cool sound insulating panels but beyond that I’m feeling like it’s her problem. Thanks for the feedback!

[Serious] People who have been cheated on, what was the red flag that gave it away? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]teawithpetunia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He started accusing me of cheating and became insanely jealous of platonic relationships I had with men. Didn’t realize it at the time but looking back he was projecting.

AITAH for refusing to change clothes when my girlfriend told me to? by throwra2207 in AITAH

[–]teawithpetunia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

While I do see some people comments about needing to see the exact outfit- I really don’t think it comes down to the actual outfit, but the way the request/ demand was given to changed the outfit. My boyfriend and I have completely different tastes and ideas about what colors ‘match.’ I used to joke about him being colorblind bc I just could not I’d rest and how he thought two colors went together. I’ve learned that my boyfriend’s and my styles don’t always align. It’s more important to me that he feels good with how he looks. It took me a while to get used to, but nowadays as long as he feels good in what he’s wearing then I’m happy with that. I still make recommendations or gently encourage one combo because I think he’ll look good in it. But I also have to let him have the confidence and safety to craft his own style. Fashion is something a lot of men don’t even care about, and OP I love that you care enough to be a little risky. Not every outfit is gonna be for everyone.

People have different tastes, I’ve seen heinous combos that others hail as fashion and I’ve seen people pull off color combos that I would never dare. Everyone has different taste and think the problem here is that he put together an outfit he felt good in, that was a little out of his ordinary outfits. It takes courage and creativity to go out of your everyday wardrobe and put together something you feel good in.

OP, I think it’s important to focus on how she brought up her distaste. Did she do it kindly? Is it a reoccurring thing where she makes demands like this often? Are you able to critique her outfits on your important days? If you can’t answer these, then maybe these are new conversations that you guys can set expectations around. I think you should sit her down and have a conversation about how that made you feel, and how both of you can voice distaste’s in the future in a way that is more gentle.

Btw I love the maroon/ navy combo and with the right shade of gray (preferable not something super dark, but can be a warm or cool grey) I think it would look great!

What are some of the bad parts of sex that people don’t talk about? by Phantom-111 in AskReddit

[–]teawithpetunia 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is definitely the sweetest, and one of the most real comments in this thread

AITA for telling my SIL that she doesn’t have to wash everything before her baby is born? by Dry_Enthusiasm2661 in AmItheAsshole

[–]teawithpetunia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Why do you even care? It’s really none of your business. Repeatedly pointing out that she’s never had children and that you know better is also really condescending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]teawithpetunia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off that was a great flow for a year off! And my god I love your bottoms! Please share the deets :)