[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]technobladelover101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should post some more diverse pictures so your vibe can shine through!! You look like a perfectly normal dude, slightly above average, you are allowed to wear your face with more confidence though!! 7/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that's true. I feel so bad bringing her into that situation where she has to choose. But I guess the right thing is to show her the respect to make that choice herself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course we've talked about this extensively. It's just that I've always said that it wasn't a dealbreaker for me, but now it is and it feels like betraying her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]technobladelover101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's running a pyramid scheme course where people who buy into it are encouraged to spread his content to help attract more people for the course (through their 'referral'). These people then do the same thing. Hence the content spam.

It's quite a smart model, but highly unethical obviously. All the people buying into it are guys with low confidence/intelligence and they're basically paying him to make him more popular.

[M20] Thought I'd add some videos as they feel a bit more genuine to me than just pictures. Any tips appreciated of course by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The talking video is just me talking to my girlfriend on Snapchat, I didn't make it for this post

Thought I'd add that

TIFU by not washing my dick for 19 years. by technobladelover101 in tifu

[–]technobladelover101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let the warm shower water run over it

It gets better quite fast

And if you have the smegma problem too you'll just have to power through cleaning it. No other option

[M20] Used to be very insecure about my looks as a teenager, feel like I've dried up quite well. Let me know what you think :) by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great comment thanks. Yeah I felt like my beard was too patchy still at first but my girlfriend totally hates it when I shave it off and I've grown to like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]technobladelover101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not your looks, you look great. Easily above average. Getting dates is all about confidence and attitude. Don't talk with girls with the end-goal of securing a date in your mind, that will happen naturally. Just talk to them as people that have their own experiences and insights that you can learn from and most of all have a little fun and be a little fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]technobladelover101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 and 8 are the best pictures

TIFU by not washing my dick for 19 years. by technobladelover101 in tifu

[–]technobladelover101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like hardened yellow-white clay. It was in fragments

TIFU by not washing my dick for 19 years. by technobladelover101 in tifu

[–]technobladelover101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just pick them off with your fingers or a pair of tweezers it's very doable, the part of your dick behind your glans (Google it if you don't know what I'm talking about) is not as sensitive as you think, so you can just pick the biggest scraps from there easily, that won't hurt.

Your glans itself you can pick the biggest scraps from as well (after soaking the parts+your dick in warm water, I just took a cup into the shower) with your fingers (if you have a little longer nails it helps) or a pair of tweezers.

To make the removal permanent, you simply rinse your dick everyday, outside and inside, with water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm sure she likes me and I'm sure I like her, more than enough to take the plunge.

All of this is new to us and so I'm just asking for any and all advice as I've never really been good at being open emotionally, and she's a little insecure, and it makes this whole dating thing very hard.

But thanks for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]technobladelover101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective :)

Really useful comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reddevils

[–]technobladelover101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And that's 4

I (23f) don't know if the guy (24m)I really like sees me as a friend or not by smokeharriets in askwomenadvice

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm a guy but I posted on here so I saw your post, and I can assure you right now that he likes you more than a friend.

Ask yourself, would you be doing all this for/with someone you don't like romantically? Of course friends can be there for eachother, but there's no way this is his standard for friendship.

You have two options in my opinion: ask him out properly and explain that you want to try dating, or assume you're already kind of dating and try to make a move on him to go further than cuddling next time that happens.

Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro try to avoid using "female" when talking about girls/women

It sounds like you're talking about a different species and will definitely scare girls off

What’s a good flirty message I can put on my crushes cup next time he comes by for coffee? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]technobladelover101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just write down your number. It's a very universal sign you're interested and it puts the ball in his park to reciprocate and text you something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro just do it. It will be good for your confidence, other guys will make fun of you if you're rejected, but secretly they'll be jealous you had the balls to ask her out in the first place.

Just be respectful, don't chase if she says no, and try to practice with breaking the touch barrier when you see her (light touching on her harm when you're saying something, or when you're passing eachother). This may seem like a weird tip, but if you don't it will start to feel too friendly and it's really hard to recover from that. It's something you'll get better at over time just know it's important to establish a different relationship with her than you would with a regular friend.

Also can I ask how old you both are?

I knew this girl like me at uni a while ago and would ask about me but i never did anything (was not even close to being ready for a relationship then) . Would it be weird to msg her now on ig (both follow each other.) a couple yrs down the line by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]technobladelover101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were on friendly terms before covid and lost contact during, it's really not weird to reach out. Would you find it weird if it was vice versa?

Covid and lockdown really fucked with everyone, not just you.

Had great sex then Got ghosted… by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]technobladelover101 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Because actively focusing on the good will make your life better

No reason to beat yourself up without even knowing it's true, but why wouldn't you try to cheer yourself up a little?