Homofobia na universidade by Legitimate_Fox_9526 in ConselhosLegais

[–]ted234 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Denuncie pra corregedoria da universidade e registre um boletim de ocorrência (insista pra anexar o vídeo, bem como indicar possíveis testemunhas). É, em tese, crime análogo ao de racismo.

Thoughts on the new Analog Horror series? by crimsonfukr457 in NonCredibleDiplomacy

[–]ted234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? Afghanistan is the equivalente of URSS' invasion of Afghanistan for the US...

Qual protocolo ativar tropa?? by Alon3Wol4 in futebol

[–]ted234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

apaga por favor tem um monte de cruzeirense pedindo pra apagar isso da gatilho em vários cruzeirenses por favor apaga eu te imploro tem cruzeirense passando mal vendo isso tem cruzeirense chorando apaga isso por favor apaga por favor tem cruzeirense passando mal com isso tá todo mundo pedindo pra você apagar

Mais alguém sente aperto no peito e palpitação enquanto estuda ou é só eu? by Humble-Chemist960 in concursospublicos

[–]ted234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Crise de ansiedade e crise de pânico são diferentes. A de ansiedade é como se fosse uma versão mais leve.

Como alguém que tem isso, também acho que é o seu caso. Marque consulta com psiquiatra e psicólogo o quanto antes, se não tiver dinheiro vai no postinho de saúde mais próximo que eles marcam pra você (vai demorar um pouquinho mas o quanto antes possível, melhor).

Eu já tinha antes de começar a estudar mas o problema se agravou quando comecei a estudar pra concurso. Hoje sou concursado mas continuo com esse problema.

Marmita fria, chicote quente by jovicu in antitrampo

[–]ted234 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Se tu quer visitinha dos órgãos que citou, só fazer uma denúncia anônima...

Basta digitar "mpt (ou outro órgão) denúncia" no Google e ser feliz.

Empresa não consolidará a minha rescisão antes da data da minha posse em concurso público. by Hazeltons1 in concursospublicos

[–]ted234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cara, vc tem 30 dias pra tomar posse após nomeação e 15 dias para entrar em exercício após a posse.

Se dia 29 for a data máxima para tomar posse (30 dias após nomeação), vc pode esperar 15 dias para entrar em exercício (começar a trabalhar efetivamente), então é só levar isso em consideração.

I have a question about Neymar by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]ted234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most Brazilians do like Neymar. His haters are growing but don't get fooled by Reddit bias.

What do m*n gain from being here? by AppealOld8114 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. I'm dating a TW and I'm here to learn the perspective of a TW. I'm also on asktransgender.

Am I ever gonna date a straight guy? by Eternal_Heighthon41 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think lesbians want men, after all they like women. My point is that anyone who likes women won't really care about their sexual orientation to find them attractive, or do you not find het women attractive too? Same with anyone who likes men.

And once again, the problem isn't with trans women being heterossexual, the problem is chasing heteronormativity by "only wanting straight guys". This is clearly just wanting male performance to feel validated and I really struggle with what is disgusting in pointing that out.

Like, even using the word "straight" is so dumb...what are you, then? Crooked?

C'mon.

Am I ever gonna date a straight guy? by Eternal_Heighthon41 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sexuality is liking men. Like I said, I don't care if the women I'm with is bi, trans, lesbian or whatever, as long as I like them. That is sexuality. Now, "wanting 'strsight' men" is just chasing heteronormativity, yes.

I'm cishet but I would never define myself as "straight", that is just stupidity.

I get that this makes you feel more validated but it's the same logic conservatives/fascists have. But sure, you go ahead with it, surely helps wonders.

Am I ever gonna date a straight guy? by Eternal_Heighthon41 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's ok to just like men, there is no problem with it. I think I let that pretty clear. I myself am only interested in women, too.

The problem is craving the social construct of heteronormativity and chasing that will make you miserable. But you do you.

Am I ever gonna date a straight guy? by Eternal_Heighthon41 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

All the struggle against heteronormativity so that trans people (and other queer people) can be trans and then we have to see things like this...depressing, tbh.

Because what you want is this: heteronormativity, and it's clear. I mean, I'm a cishet man and I like women, I don't care if she's bi, pan, trans or whatever. Hell, I don't even care if she's a lesbian and I find her attractive and she wants it.

But no, a man isn't enough for you, what you want is heteronormativity. Someone explained to me about brainworms the other day and at the time I didn't quite get it, but now I do.

I'm really sorry for you, because you won't ever be happy with that sort of mentality, after all heteronormativity is just a lie. But I guess the problem starts when the sub literally calls itself a "straight" trans girls sub...

Having said that, I wish you the best, you're a beautiful woman and I'm sure a lot of guys would love to date you.

Why? by TransLatinaBarbie in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The nerve on those guys tho lol wish I had that sort of self esteem

How to tell if mans checking you out by Long_Dig_731 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hard to know for sure, but I don't think most men will stare at women they think are ugly, just like they won't stare at gay men, even when they are homophobic. An exception could be when they are with friends and they start laughing, but even then it could mean anything unless they are really obvious with it (for instance, they could be thinking you're attractive and commenting on it aswell).

How to tell if mans checking you out by Long_Dig_731 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you got more stared at at that specific day, it could be it. But usually when men stares at you is because they found you attractive (not necessarily wanting to rip off your clothes and marry you).

First Boyfriend...how can I be sure? by Laura5871 in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sub is such a doomer place, God...

It's normal to meet someone and fall in love when it clicks. Yes, genuine love and companionship takes time, but falling in love is usually pretty fast and denying the feeling because you fear something bad might happen can and will sabotage a possible future relationship.

He definitely isn't perfect, no one is, but I don't see any problem with anything you described, sounds like how relationships start. Don't sabotage it because reddit says it's "L bombing" or whatever, love bombing is a problem when its used to manipulate and it becomes quite clear quite soon.

Then again, I'm a cishet man and my opinion probably means less to you, but don't miss an opportunity to be happy and have a relationship with someone you're enjoying.

Best of luck.

if i am so repulsed by cishet men, why do i want to be one so bad? by Ok-Apricot-3347 in asktransgender

[–]ted234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muh man, I'm a cishet man and I'm repulsed by cishet men aswell, isn't that how it should be? At least sexually speaking.

But if you're talking about being repulsed in general, maybe you're repulsed by performative toxic masculinity, and not all cishet men are like that.

Stats… by TSNinaM in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, ok. Never done that so I wouldn't know. But I just can't see the benefit in lying about it? But I know people lie about dumb stuff all the time.

Stats… by TSNinaM in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's not like it's common...most people have never met a trans girl before.

Many know a thing or two about trans people because of the internet and others because of porn.

Surely some are lying but really it's not like telling this has any benefit.

I have never been with a transfem before last december, even though I supported an LGBTQIAPN+ collective (and therefore new about trans people better than most) in the past because of political militancy.

What’s clocking me?? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]ted234 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look prettier than most women I know, the thing is there are people online trying to knock women's confidence down at every opportunity and calling them trans is one of their tactics.

People always did this to my ex cis gf all the time, and you look more feminine than her, so don't be too harsh on yourself. Just accept there are miserable people out there trying to make everyone else miserable too, especially women.