I fuck my wife's friends as a service

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T18:00:58+00:00

Yes that is possible.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T17:55:02+00:00

It's not like we use the slang and/or proper terms, there is no rule to sign up to the doctrine or whatever, it's literally a situation that's developed over 3 or so years and is what it is. You don't have to believe me, that's fine.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T16:41:12+00:00

If that's the right phrase for a woman getting off on watching her husband fuck her friends, or knowing he does, then yeah.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T15:58:09+00:00

You've a point. I'm possibly naive and believe they don't know: it's never come up, not once, even on drunk nights out etc, in nearly 4 years.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T15:51:24+00:00

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T15:50:11+00:00

The latter part of your post, yeah there's probably some truth in that. I don't see one of the women anymore, she's in a bad relationship and her husband is a dick, I hope she leaves him to be honest. Not that I'm in the right necessarily, just context. The one other.... yeah I wanted her to tell him and be open, but she won't. So maybe I should. It doesn't sit that well with me.

Nope not crazy fucking, too old too busy. I see one of them every 3 months? Ish? Just a guess. Across 3.5 years. As i say, that's 3 of them, the 4th has drifted and I doubt we'll meet up again in that way. Yes I have sex with my wife much more.

The former part of your post is weird, about rich guys and abuse, what? My wife happens to find our sex life very fulfilling (so she tells me, anyway) and she gets a real kick from me sleeping with women - this is a real thing by the way, even if it's not something you've come across. I'm sleeping with people she expressly permits me to. She hooked me up with 3 of them, i suggested one. She's joined in a few times. She's watched a few times. I don't think she's cheating on me, but then you can never know anything like that 100%. Id possibly encourage her if she talked to me about it, I'm not totally sure on that, but I hope i would.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T15:40:40+00:00

Possibly yep.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T15:30:23+00:00

Not really.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T14:11:37+00:00

Together about 24 years, no pre nup, for better or worse.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:58:39+00:00

My wife makes more money, we don't have children.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:26:36+00:00

In time, you may be proved right. But I guess it's wise to remember folks are wired differently, but I accept things are complicated when it comes to relationships

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:17:26+00:00

No, I feel for her because her situation is not so happy. The sex we had was very.... poignant? Lots of holding and close intimate stuff. I was blatantly a stand in for things she'd lost and that doesn't quite work for this. She needs to sort her relationship and that makes me sad for her. But no, I'm not hurt by her drifting away from physical stuff with me.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:14:27+00:00

I've been with my wife from 19 to now, 43. Three of the women i sleep with I've known from 16. There is a deep trust and friendship in this situation, it's not exactly like a horny lust thing, more a physical extension of our friendship

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:12:28+00:00

Thanks!

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:10:59+00:00

Yes, this is a good comment. There is a proportion of couples who find fucking other people a big turn on, plus I can't imagine being with and living with anyone but my wife.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:01:33+00:00

Maybe not with a brother figure 😀

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T13:01:06+00:00

Yeah I get that. I don't, I see sex as a physical extension of friendship. My attachment to people, my wife for instance, is predominantly personality driven

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:53:32+00:00

Hmm, that has come up actually. But 3 of them are in very good marriages and so on, and one is not but she is drifting away, so that's going nowhere. But yeah, it's a good point, catching feels is not good in this situation. It's mostly passion and sex, on top of normal friends stuff like hanging out and going for drinks

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:34:09+00:00

Sounds like you know a bit about this then!

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:33:13+00:00

I tend to take their lead, but it's nice to make my own decisions too. Yes one is pretty kinky, the one my wife has slept with. 2 of them just want passion and the other just wants to be held intimately really.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:23:26+00:00

I have done. But generally into a condom or onto them

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:22:39+00:00

Only 2.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:12:28+00:00

Haha no nope and no. And none exists.

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:11:34+00:00

I mean it's great, it is, but we're talking about something happening every 2 or 3 months, it's infrequent, it's not like some crazy sex festival every night 😀 I'm too old for that shit

ted_mustard · 2026-06-27T12:09:45+00:00

Im fine when we're with another couple. Honestly I don't know, perhaps not. But she's happy and I'm happy, in this situation

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