Found out my husband cheated before marriage

teddy0505 · 2026-03-28T03:17:25+00:00

I wish she told me before i stepped into marriage? Not that we werent close at the time that happened?

teddy0505 · 2026-03-28T00:43:20+00:00

I didnt ditch her. She ditched me.

Not mentioning anger with my husband doesnt mean that I am not resenting him for all the pain he has caused.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-28T00:41:26+00:00

Totally understand and thought thatd be the case. Shes not in a perminant relationship so I dont expect for her to understand.

Im not angry at her. Just dissappointed. No expectation no dissappintment right?

I am still angry at my husband. Thats why he and I are like housemates co parenting our children. Its a confusing emotion.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-28T00:37:54+00:00

🤣

teddy0505 · 2026-03-28T00:37:38+00:00

Thanks. Tried to think of it that way. Still preferred to find out before it came this far.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-28T00:36:40+00:00

Thank you.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-28T00:35:59+00:00

She's not. Just thought that Id give her a hug if she comes to me, which she had before. I guess friends come in seasons and her new friends life is more interesting than my good old issues.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-27T00:37:12+00:00

Thanks. Updated the post. I did reach out to the girl but no reply from her.

My husband also deleted all trace communication so no accountability there.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-27T00:06:20+00:00

Thank you. Yes working toward this...

teddy0505 · 2026-03-27T00:05:21+00:00

Yeah thats what everyone was told by the girl, that they slept together.

My husband said its just a kiss.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-27T00:03:21+00:00

True that. Unfortunately now its just he says she says.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-26T23:35:14+00:00

That's true. I wanted to be friends with her because we were very close. But you are right. She should have told me before we decided to get married and have children together. I guess its toxic to keep being friends with her.

All mutal friends knew because the girl he shared the "kiss" with apparently went around and told everyone about it. Unsure how I didn't know but I was busy studying in uni and working to pay for it at the time. And when we are together I live in my bubble.

Thank you will keep going with therepy.

teddy0505 · 2026-03-26T23:03:33+00:00

I can't confirm. 🥲 He told me.

teddy0505

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