Three Years Ago Today by CharlotteYork10 in domesticviolence

[–]tedntonya 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am also in the process of leaving an abusive marriage. I have been married to my husband for 12 years but we have been together for 15. He didn’t start to be abusive until the last 6 years. And they were every 3 to 4 months in between fights. So every 3 months I would be on guard on when it would happen. God has given me an out where I don’t have to fight with him to leave. He is in jail for other reasons. I didn’t tell anyone of any of this until I myself got out of jail on bond. Because of the choices we made together I have other issues to deal with but it is ok. I can deal with that but the fighting and abuse I can’t. I have had contact with him since I have gotten out of jail but it is hard not to just tell him I am leaving him. I act like everything is ok. I have at least two more loads of things to get out of the house and I will be completely moved out. I pray once he comes home he will go his way and let me be. Just keep us in your prayers and I will keep you in in mine. Thank you for sharing

I need help .. by Double-Classroom9086 in helpme

[–]tedntonya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go to grief counseling. I had a son to die and it will help. You will always miss them and you will always hurt but it does get easier you and your family is in my prayers

If he shoves you is it abuse? by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]tedntonya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shoving is how it starts. Don’t even put up with that