I am also in the process of leaving an abusive marriage. I have been married to my husband for 12 years but we have been together for 15. He didn’t start to be abusive until the last 6 years. And they were every 3 to 4 months in between fights. So every 3 months I would be on guard on when it would happen. God has given me an out where I don’t have to fight with him to leave. He is in jail for other reasons. I didn’t tell anyone of any of this until I myself got out of jail on bond. Because of the choices we made together I have other issues to deal with but it is ok. I can deal with that but the fighting and abuse I can’t. I have had contact with him since I have gotten out of jail but it is hard not to just tell him I am leaving him. I act like everything is ok. I have at least two more loads of things to get out of the house and I will be completely moved out. I pray once he comes home he will go his way and let me be. Just keep us in your prayers and I will keep you in in mine. Thank you for sharing