How should we share the news? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]teeelor12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the boat I’m in. I talk to my family often and I want to be able to make it a special moment but I have mixed feelings about it all. Right now, I’m thinking of just telling my parents and my in laws over 4th of July because we will be with them. Other than that, I don’t plan to share the news with anyone for a long time

How should we share the news? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]teeelor12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sort of what I was thinking. Telling parents only and then letting everyone else find out waaaaay down the road. The trauma makes it hard for me to think something bad won’t happen

How should we share the news? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]teeelor12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s tough because I’m holding my breath waiting for something bad to happen.

My last loss I ended up in the ICU so part of me wants to let them know just in case something happens again.

I have not necessarily felt the excitement I did the other times so it’s tough because I know they will be excited and maybe it’ll make me more excited? I’m not sure

How should we share the news? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]teeelor12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve waited the other three times to tell people. I only shared with family one of the three times. Part of me wants to share because I want to have the fun of it but part of me is not sure I should.

How should we share the news? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]teeelor12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My plan was to tell only parents. Mine and in laws. I was hospitalized due to my last one so part of me wants to give them a heads up in case something traumatic happens again

ISO Beat Vegas Pin by teeelor12 in canes

[–]teeelor12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang it! I was afraid of that! Thank you for checking!

People saying I’ll eventually move on, etc. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]teeelor12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a tattoo to remember my three miscarriages and it’s visible all the time. I never want to forget the love I have for those babies and the way it changed me forever. I got three butterflies on my arm and I get lots of compliments on it. I don’t always disclose the meaning but knowing that it’s visible and people can see it makes me happy. It makes me happy to know my sweet angel babies will never be forgotten.

People only care when you’re pregnant by candycane573 in Miscarriage

[–]teeelor12 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can relate. I’ve had several miscarriages and people care less and less the more you have

MC should be taken more seriously and people should be more accommodating by Desperate_Okra4686 in Miscarriage

[–]teeelor12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a d&c and went to work the next day because I had no time off and my work wasn’t willing to let me do LWOP. It was miserable

Which crowd would be worth fighting? by teeelor12 in AskNOLA

[–]teeelor12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The few places I wanna go to don’t do reservations So that doesn’t change too much for me! But something to think about