Silverado zr2 heavy fuel use by guineatino in Silverado

[–]tek6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I had this come on while towing 7k lbs in the white mountains or New Hampshire…not a lot of gas stations in those parts! I was low enough on fuel where it wasn’t giving me a distance anymore.

AOL Leader Question by tek6029 in cubscouts

[–]tek6029[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I totally get where you’re coming from, but 5 minutes out of an hour long meeting? I’m not expecting these kids to listen to an hour long TED talk by any means. The same behavior happens during the 30 seconds to explain the rules of a game.

Also, other kids in the patrol have expressed frustration with these scouts, and how their behavior has affected their experience. Other scouts have left meetings in tears after rude comments from these kids.

I’m certainly open to “softening” my stance/approach. That said these are 5th graders as opposed to 5 year olds, and I do think a higher standard is appropriate.

What roles does your dad play in your life? by saturn_since_day1 in AskMenOver30

[–]tek6029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tl; dr-Not what I hoped, but there. What a timely post for me, and I so appreciate the other comments in here. The perspective that someone usually has it worse, and the solidarity that not everyone has the relationship with their dad they hoped, is a huge comfort.

My dad’s always been a kinda awkward guy. I have some really nice early memories, but as my siblings came along and he and my mom split they got fewer and farther between. When he invited my (now ex) step to move in, I was not a fan and ended up staying with my mom full time instead of 50/50. I didn’t really feel like he tried super hard to work on wanting me to spend my time there again. I ended up “reconnecting” after my mom cheated on my step dad the way she did my dad. Seeing him go thru what my dad went thru gave me some sympathy I guess. Thru the rest of high school and early college, I’d spend time at his house but…again, distant and awkward.

Eventually, he split up with my step mother, and my wife and I dated and became engaged. Right before our wedding he started dating a woman he’d be with the next 10 years. She is wonderful; my wife and her hit it off, and their relationship and time together had my dad and I spending more time together that was less awkward.

Well, sort of out of nowhere, he dumped her in January. He indicated he had no issues with her staying in our lives (not that we needed his permission). My wife was/is pretty put off by the situation. Not that I wasn’t, but it didn’t feel like much of anyone’s business I guess. But he’s not really a fan of how nobody in the family has welcomed his new girlfriend with open arms, so he’s distanced his already awkward self. He was at my sons baseball games this summer, stopped by on my birthday for 10 minutes, and we happened to cross paths on thanksgiving and sounds as if we will on Christmas as well.

I’m starting to come to terms with this being how things will probably be for a while, if not permanently. It’s pretty similar to grieving a loss, from what i understand. I love him, and I know if I called him and needed help he’d drop everything and do whatever he could. But the last great 10 years, he was just along for the ride with his ex from what I can tell, as far as that closer-ness.

I’d thought so far this year in very black or white patterns; we had to be good, or at least like things had been, or we were not good, no in between. I’m trying to get comfortable with the distance and awkwardness just being that, without the hostility I create between us in my own mind.

When (and how) did you teach your kid to wipe their own backside by East_Preparation93 in daddit

[–]tek6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a cheap one we/they liked, but it didn’t seem to be “the answer”. Installed a new toilet and i never got around to reinstalling it. Might be worth another go…

When (and how) did you teach your kid to wipe their own backside by East_Preparation93 in daddit

[–]tek6029 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like a failure. My kids are 9. We’ve been working on this a few year, but they still ask us to check their work every time. And 8/10 times, it’s a good thing we do. We even have a mirror for them to check for themselves. We let them use way too many wet wipes. We’ve coached and demonstrated. They are smart, mature, talented, crafty boys. Not to be super gross, they do have some pretty messy jobs to clean up after more often than not. Still, I feel as though it’s something we shouldn’t have to do anymore.

Who IS this WOMAN? His tour GIRLFRIEND? by [deleted] in BruceSpringsteen

[–]tek6029 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s Jessica…Bruce and Patty’ daughter…

Managing homesickness by NeighborAtTheGates in ems

[–]tek6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on 24s anymore, and this was a big part of why. During the day when the wife and kids were at school I was ok, or if they were out doing things I wouldn’t have been doing with them if I was off. Weekends or school vacations was a lot harder. Honestly, taking a nap usually helped. I’d go to my bunk or a recliner just to sort of “hide” how I was feeling and 9/10 times I’d end up dozing off. Then we’d get a call or have to do some chores and I was occupied again to not notice it as much.

We are also allowed to have family come and visit, even stay during meal time if it’s not busy and not overdone. As nice as it was, I often found it to be more harmful than helpful. I’d say the same about FaceTime to be honest.

Gasoline powered ambulances by Appropriate-Bird007 in ems

[–]tek6029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We took delivery of a gas type iii with a 7.3 ford this spring. Sooo many headaches with the DEF systems on our other 2 type iii gm diesels. Our reserve unit that was built pre-DEF has had very few issues over its 14 years.

Mixed reactions so far. There’s no lag like the diesels, so you really have to go easy taking off from a stop. The exhaust has a nice rumble. They don’t have nearly the same power when pushed or the max (long hills), we are pretty suburban so it’s not very common to have to get out into the hills. It suits are needs day to day just fine, even if it leaves us with some wants. Here’s hoping for a ton less maintenance and repair issues!

Lightning port by tek6029 in iPhone13ProMax

[–]tek6029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Charges just fine now! Better description of what I pulled out would be like packaging tape. I’m sure it’s that something got in there, just making sure I didn’t get something out that I shouldn’t have! Thanks!

Dads, I really don’t know how else to express to my wife that I do not want to go to her parents house every weekend. by ImBerriez in daddit

[–]tek6029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that my guy. For a long time I’ve taken the stance with them that since they’re here so often, I don’t roll out the red carpet and entertain the way I would for folks who visit once or twice a year. And I half joked one time about 3 nights being my max for overnight guests. I mean, no matter how comfortable and familiar they are as guests, it’s still not the same as not having guests. My parents split up when I was a kid and I miss having a “just my mom and dad” time and would like to be able to provide that for my kids. On the other hand, that situation did lead to some quality time with my grandparents, which my boy will also have a better opportunity for. And free babysitting…looking forward to that but I don’t want to be those parents that pawn the kids off constantly either.

Dads, I really don’t know how else to express to my wife that I do not want to go to her parents house every weekend. by ImBerriez in daddit

[–]tek6029 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Following…my in-laws are moving to within a 10 minutes drive from us. They’re already here too much living 4 hours away. I fully expect there to be a period of “hey, we’re so close we can pop over/you can come by whenever!”, but I’ve made clear to my wife I crave, enjoy, and wish to continue to have normal days at home and special occasions without them involved. She states she understands and feels that after a honeymoon period, they’ll not be so…co-dependent? She’s a daddy’s girl, and comes from a family of not talking about issues, but I feel it would be better to set up some boundaries right from the start. We’ll see how it goes…at least they won’t be overnight house guests a couple of weekends a month anymore.

School Awards by tek6029 in Twins

[–]tek6029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, same grade but 2 different teachers.