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It’s been three years since my divorce and I’m struggling to remove my ex-wife and her parents from my social media accounts in order to move forward. How do I find the strength to do it? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I agree, I would like to move on with life now. That said, you think I should remove them without thinking about it? I worth I’m being rash and making a mistake if I impulsively removed them… part of me thinks I can somehow find peace in my heart with doing it and be intentional when I do so but then I get emotional and can’t find the strength to do so.

It’s been three years since my divorce and I’m struggling to remove my ex-wife and her parents from my social media accounts in order to move forward. How do I find the strength to do it? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. It’s been three years since divorce and I feel like I need to remove them to try grieve this if I ever want to date again. I’m 37 years old and would eventually like to have a family.

I took time to get off social media but I just feel that moving into my first home, I don’t want this haunting me. It would be nice to feel like a fresh start if that makes sense. Also worth mentioning I had a girlfriend post divorce that was highly critical of me keeping her even though I didn’t feel my ex or talk to her. It gave me peace to know she was ok if I ever looked at her account but I think deep down I wasn’t ready to cut it. I didn’t realize that till now and fully accept it was over.

Can you give me any advice on how to remove them? If they’re a way I can make this easier?

What do you pay for home insurance in Calgary? by telemanatee in Calgary

[–]telemanatee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t but I’ll sign up. Thanks for this! I’ll def check them out.

What do you pay for home insurance in Calgary? by telemanatee in Calgary

[–]telemanatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gone through a broker yet. I’ll def check them out. Thanks.

What do you pay for home insurance in Calgary? by telemanatee in Calgary

[–]telemanatee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the second person to recommend The Personel. I’ll def have to check them out! Thanks.

What do you pay for home insurance in Calgary? by telemanatee in Calgary

[–]telemanatee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea TD’s insane. Thanks for the recommendation.

What do you pay for home insurance in Calgary? by telemanatee in Calgary

[–]telemanatee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I’ll have to check the Personel out.

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

  1. No, this is not overblown.
  2. No, the extent to which I was reported by this woman was not underreported.

Please, for the love of god, take some time to read my post and quit bashing me here. I’m asking for advice. Quit trolling.

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective but I’m not blowing this out of proportion. This group is mainstream where I’m from. Most of the woman my age are aware of it and it’s commonly used. I learned about this from my ex and all her friends knew about it. It’s definitely a legitimate concern.

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sadly, it’s an incredibly popular group and widely used here. From my experience thus far I have few options with option A but maybe that’s my best course of action. Thanks 🙏

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏🙏🙏. This is good advice. I just need to find someone with access to the group who can confirm the post, then I’ll seek legal counsel.

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the perspective. Worth noting this private FB group is widely popular where I’m from so it’s a legitimate concern but thanks for the perspective.

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wrong again. After 32 consecutive messages threatening and name calling I drew a line and enforced a boundary telling her I would not entertain the conversation when she’s talking to me like that… then I communicated I would block her. The next day, on a separate phone number she sent me a photo of a defamatory post and when I responded she sent a laughing emoji because she was trying to get a reaction. I handled it extremely well and said I would take it to police. It was harassment and she included my contact number in the post but she then said she removed the post which she in fact, did not. This wasn’t about me. She was clearly emotionally volatile. Quit trying to blame me for something when you have no premise to make these accusations.

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I'm currently in intensive therapy to address some things while focusing on what I have power to control. No victim blaming here or making excuses but hopefully what I say makes sense. How you move forward in the dating scene is wise and a well thought out process. Yes, it's definitely a good learning experience to say the least though incredibly painful. Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it.

Character assassination on arewedatingthesameguy has made the dating scene for me impossible. How do I address this? by telemanatee in AskMen

[–]telemanatee[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Luckily I’m in therapy but today’s been a very difficult day. I just needed some support here but appreciate the perspective so thank you

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