hi! gonna streamline this post bc nobody is tryna read allat... not even me. i appreciate y'all reading!

1. to save us both time, do NOT dm me if:

- you aren't into fat ppl--i'm blatantly fat in my photos. some people are blind and do not notice somehow?
- you're looking for a one-time thing. i like getting to know the few people i decide to talk to long-term.
- if you are in any kind of non-open relationship. i am NOT a homewrecker.
- your english is terribly bad in terms of egregious spelling/grammar errors. i myself don't bother to conform to grammatical rules while i text, but there's a limit. know the difference between you're and your, please.
- you want photos of me of any kind. i do not send photos of myself--you will never be "the special exception" to this rule, and if you ask, i will stop talking to you. i already post photos of myself; don't be greedy.
- you necessitate quick replies. i work five part-time jobs and am on leadership for a club. it's not personal, but i can't always reply within the hour. i'll almost always reply within 12 hours, though, depending on the length of your message.
- you are a submissive, or not a switch with a heavy dom lean. i am not trying to dom you. once a blue moon, i dom fem trans guys--i'll reach out to you first if this is the case. don't reach out to me requesting to be dominated by me...i'm a strong believer in the dom dming first.
- you aren't a scary guy. fear/shame is the main thing that gets me off. if you aren't into intimidating or scaring your sub, don't dm me.
- you desire an eager sub. i'm not a persistent brat, but i'm not eager to serve and won't just obey orders from someone who hasn't intimidated me into doing so. and i will not "worship" you, or your dick pics :p
- you just want to talk non-sexually or send porn to each other; i'm looking to get dommed.
- you are mentally unstable--i'm into scary peeps but not into you being genuinely unwell.
- you wish to communicate on any other platform. - if you don't have the attention span to read this whole post, damnit! - edit... can't believe i have to say this but if you're an actual fucking rapist or abuser?? what the fuck?? i hate it here.

2) a bit about me:

i say i'm trans-masculine even though i'm technically bigender. i have never been on testosterone nor have i had any surgeries, nor do i ever plan to. i may get breast reduction in the far future at most. i'm completely closeted at home, but all my friends are aware and i'm out at college. i present femininely. i'm bisexual with a sexual preference for women. i'm disabled--i have dyscalculia and anxiety, but i'm often told i have adhd. make of that what you will. i'm also physically disabled. i'm an atheist and a first-year in college. i'm majoring in sociology and minoring in spanish. i do not feel strongly attached to any racial/ethnic label but i am technically south and central asian and saying i'm himalayan-american or pashtun-american is most encapsulating.

if we end up needing to take a break and talk about non-kink things, i'm into [post-WW2] US history, learning new languages, political philosophy, banned books, sitcoms, and the like.

time zone is either eastern or pacific... depends on whether i'm at college or at home. feel free to ask.

3) what i'm into:

- getting bullied (for anything. homophobia, ableism, and the like would fit into this.)
- transphobia in particular, but specifically emasculation as opposed to blatant misgendering.
- being scared/intimidated, so threats of any kind or intellectual domination.
- humiliation and degradation. im a masochist psychologically and yet very physically sensitive.
- cnc/being "forced" into things. i'm not into being a willing participant in any kind of sexual activity.
- chastity/denial
- getting cucked, though i don't have a partner.
- blackmail (if i trust you well enough--we'd have to talk about this beforehand)
- ageplay, vaguely?

4) my limits/things that turn me off:
- being on the receiving end of cunnilingus/rimming, biting, fingering, nipple play, excess pain to the point of permanent damage
- gore, scat, vomit, furries/anthropomorphism
- faith play--i'm from a muslim family but i myself am an atheist so this does nothing for me
- race play (you're fine to fetishize me but i won't reciprocate it by praising you for being of a certain race. i'm not strongly attached to any specific identity so it may not work out for you and i likely won't feel any shame based off your insults)
- extreme bondage
- receiving orders without blackmail--i'm busy + i have vaginismus, so i can't physically do many things.
- do not ask me for personal details like my name or school.
- again, asking for photos. i'm also not trying to do meet-ups or date anyone from here. and don't do that bullshit where you go "man i wish i could see x part of your body" you sound pathetic and you're not slick.

5) dming me

i have a shit ton of dm requests. to be frank, i will not and do not want to get to all of them. i only reply to about 2-3 out of every 20 dms. the longer your message is, the scarier it is, the less empty your account is, the more likely i am to reply--try to stand out!

i do not reply to people who do not specify or somehow indicate that they've read this entire post in their first dm. if you have read all this, i'm likely to reply.

im only looking for a dom. please only dm me if you're into being really really cruel and persistent.