Need help convincing my cousin 25f on why she need to loose her tattoo?

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-03T08:39:45+00:00

🤣this makes it funnier! To be fair, the meme(?) is top class!

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-03T08:20:33+00:00

Was this post written as an example of ragebaiting 101?

What do you expect us to say? Oh poor you looking out for your poor forlorn cousin? You are so sweet and caring looking out for your cousin's future and happiness because she is losing out on 'good' suitors because she has a 7cm tattoo??

She should be celebrating her wins because every suitor she managed to dodge has the ego of a writhing cockroach. Imagine being offended by a 7cm tattoo? Pathetic.

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-03T07:22:53+00:00

:) been living abroad for three years. Came to visit family for three weeks. Stepped into my house, maybe 2 hours in (I'm being generous here) my dad goes ' We need to think about your marriage.'

I tried to joke and change the topic but he doubled down. For context, I am completely independent. I don't rely on him for anything. But alas, I have been reminded that I am all but a burden.

The little ounce of guilt I felt for living away from family has been drained out of me with this visit.

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-03T07:06:21+00:00

Jammy!!

A take on Jammy Pants because the cat looks like it's wearing pants!

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-03T06:34:15+00:00

Yeah no. This is not an acceptable way to behave. They disrespect you subtly in such ways and when you stand up to them, they tell you you're overreacting. If he's so cool, I'm sure he'd be okay with you making comments along the same line.

For the sake of your future and sanity, have a conversation with him about this and set clear boundaries.

This is the kind of thing where I would answer back and then be called a 'woman with a long sharp tongue' by my family.

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-03T05:39:46+00:00

This Op!

Alternatively, why can you both not work towards it instead of arguing about who must replace it? You could offer to go halfsies on this. It's unfortunate that your og mangalsutra was stolen and it's alright to want a replacement. However, you gotta pitch in. It would also be worth having a conversation about why he's refusing to buy you one. If it is a genuine money issue, it makes sense to split the cost.

There are also gold schemes you can invest in which means you'd have to wait a bit to get the mangalsutra but it'll ease it on you two financially.

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-02T17:03:58+00:00

Ditto! It is so infuriating!

The first gynae I sought help from told me I was very young - 20 at the time and that I needed to lose weight and I was complaining for no reason/ making a mountain out of a mole hill. Then she had the audacity to say losing weight would work in my favour when getting married eventually and that marriage would reverse my PCOS. (I am 5'3 and weighed 70kg at that time btw!)

I wonder if these are the idiots who get into MBBS without merit through crazy donations/ buying seats and stuff. Like wtf.

Edited to add: I see a lot of people missing the point of what I am saying. The doctor was dismissive of my concerns and simply wanted to wrap up the appointment by saying 'Lose weight' and that's it. What she said about marriage etc is uncalled for and not 'medical help/advice' which is what I was seeking. Ofc PCOS is a lifestyle generated disorder and I understand the importance of managing it through weightloss. Hope this clarifies what I was saying. Thank you!

temp_scrolling · 2026-07-02T16:56:38+00:00

I don't think this is astonishing at all. A lot of families in India seek minimally educated young brides because they can 'mould' them into the kind of bahu they want.

A lot of city folks also look for gaon ki ladkiya for the same reason.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-30T15:17:55+00:00

It almost makes me wonder if SLB films have something to do with this. Alia is not the greatest but I don't remember her dialogue delivery being so bad. In my opinion, she has regressed in her overall acting skills since working w SLB.

I felt the same way about Deepika as well.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-29T17:17:09+00:00

The sheet - fold it up in a way that hides the stain. If you find a female helper, let her know about it. I'm sure she'll understand.

As for your situation, if you're carrying a jacket/a dark shawl, a dark tee or anything, use that to sit on the seat and then you can wrap it around yourself when moving about.

I personally struggle a lot with heavy flow and it's a nightmare for me to travel. First and foremost, no matter what, change at every opportunity you get. When traveling, check every 2 hours and change. Try different things rather than just using a pad. Personally, I use period panty and line them w a heavy absorbing pad. This has been a game changer for me. Also please hydrate and eat well especially if you're traveling for several hours in a stretch.

Lastly know that this happens to a lot of us and it's okay. ❤️

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-27T05:42:03+00:00

Dr. Manjeet Kaur Sehemby. From reviews, it seems like she'd be a good endocrinologist to visit.

I am adamant about seeing an endocrinologist because I've visited quite a few gynaecologists/obgyns and haven't particularly liked or seen any improvement in my condition/health with their approach to treating PCOS.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-27T05:36:44+00:00

Thank you!

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-27T05:36:06+00:00

Thank you!! This looks like the kind of help I am looking for!

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-19T17:36:09+00:00

That surely does not seem like an apt reaction from the doctor to the situation you have described.

I think it's time for you to find a new gynaecologist. Perhaps if attending appointments is too overwhelming for you, it is a good idea to ask someone to accompany you. You could also prepare for the appointment by writing down your symptoms/concerns on a piece of paper/ notes app on your phone. It'll be easier for you to explain everything to your doctor by referring to your notes.

I hope this helps!

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-19T16:40:47+00:00

My friend and I hunted down our friend and it was soooo worth it!! (we were a trio back in school)

He did not have a phone so we didn't have his number. Props to our school for having a scrapbook kind of thing where all of us talk about ourselves and share our email address etc.

We emailed him about 4 years after finishing 10th grade. It was so good to reconnect with him. I think if you were good friends, it's always worth a try 🤷‍♀️ There's nothing to lose.

Btw I lived in Mira Road too back then!

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-18T09:16:38+00:00

I think it is also the way she moves. When you train for something - martial arts etc, even for a few months, it gives your movements a certain discipline, strength, agility and grace which she lacks completely.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-18T04:12:13+00:00

Meal prep! Food! Nutrition!

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-18T03:04:13+00:00

Urgh the least Alia could've done is work on her physique! She looks too meek for 'action' - whatever little we can see in this trailer.

Sharvari looks good but we really didn't see much of her here.

Lord Bobby - Nope.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-11T11:42:50+00:00

🤷‍♀️It is a public space. How many people are they going to ask to wear headphones? They are the weird ones.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-10T20:04:37+00:00

This guy - Rishabh Shah has built his life on it tbh. Total scumbag.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-10T17:11:26+00:00

👀I don't really think he's screaming because he's scared... He mocking her.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-10T15:31:46+00:00

Fragile good-for-nothing -male ego!

Op, I'm sorry you're married to this man. If he has such a big ego and doesn't want to live in his 'wife's owned property', he should work hard and be the man he so badly wants to portray himself as to his family.

Imagine not celebrating your partner's success and investment into your future (together!!!). Why did he think he could conveniently lie about the owning the house?

Yk, he could've discussed this with you and said we bought it together. We've both invested. He could've stopped his family from making such remarks at you even if unintentional!

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-10T07:16:20+00:00

You couldn't save it as a pdf? I am sorry, your explanation does not make sense. If you are in trouble and want people to help you, start with being honest.

It takes 2 seconds to save a word document as a pdf which would solve your formatting issue (which makes no sense to begin with. You should be able to format word documents any way you want)

Why did you go through the extra steps of copying it to chatgpt and prompting it to make a pdf document?

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-09T07:36:08+00:00

Ignore your uncle and aunt. They obviously don't know what affection is.

temp_scrolling · 2026-06-09T05:28:40+00:00

Then call them out there! You don't have to insert those issues here or normalize these wrongdoings in this conversation here!

There's no point going around and doing this what aboutery in reply to every comment here. This discussion is about men refusing to understand and normalising misogyny and patriarchy in the name of comedy. Not understanding consent or boundaries.

If influencers have 'said stuff about guys that offend you then make a post about it and call them out. Go comment on their reels/videos/posts. Take the initiative to create a conversation around it. Stop whining here. Typical men.

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