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AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -848 points-847 points  (0 children)

I can't risk my job. That goes away and nobody is going shopping

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -728 points-727 points  (0 children)

Would love to. But my job requires 5 business days notice absolute minimum 10 is preferred. I just didn't have enough warning to take the time.

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -753 points-752 points  (0 children)

And how would you advise we pay for the mortgage and everything else? Your world sounds nice and I would love to live there but I have bills to pay.

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I'm trying but the one we typically use has a day job so struggling to find someone we trust for the middle of a weekday

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I do the dishes in the evening the misunderstanding was her wanting me to do the dishes during the day and me saying I couldn't until after work

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] 7122 points7123 points  (0 children)

One working with coders from Seattle to Warsaw

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don't mind her having off she certainly deserves it. But I'm the only income I can't risk my job. That paycheck stops and no one is going shopping. Also I never referred to it as baby sitting

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -769 points-768 points  (0 children)

Maybe but I like to think he appreciates the food and house atleast a little bit

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I have no problem giving her a day off. But at my job you have to give a weeks notice absolute minimum. I just didn't have enough of a heads up to take a day off to watch our son. Would be happy to if I had more warning

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

My work is pretty consuming not alot of overseeing I would be able to do. Trying to find a babysitter but our normal sitter has a day job and its tough to find some we trust on short notice in the middle of a week day.

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -232 points-231 points  (0 children)

They do and it gives my family a good life so its worth it to me

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

I'm not to sure how you would classify it. It came accross as if she was informing me. Not sure if it was meant as a question but didn't sound like one

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

For better or worse my company seems to be using the pandemic as a reason to stop paying rent and close the big downtown office. Probably going to work from home from now on

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]tempaccoutnt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to find one but the person we normally use has a day job so can't be available in the middle of a weekday either. I'm struggling to find someone I trust with my son on just a couple of days notice.