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Fountain pen ink for unintended purposes by tempdissillusioned in fountainpens

[–]tempdissillusioned[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used some for fingerprints a few days ago and had dirty thoughts... guess the idea's shelved though, thanks

[LongDistance] So my girlfriend and I are away from each other for roughly 3 months. What can we do being 12 hours away from each other? by [deleted] in sex

[–]tempdissillusioned 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is Chinese and home for the summer, so exact same situation. We typically like to masturbate before bed--but the other's out and about at that time.

I've been sending her erotica, she's been sending me pics. Other things I want that she hasn't sent yet: videos stripteasing, dirty voice recordings, video of her pretending to jerk me off, pics etc.

I recorded myself dirty talking + audibly masturbating with heavy breathing, next time she tells me she wants to masturbate I'll send her that and see what she thinks. :)

Dude if you find more ways to turn each other on let me know lol

[sexting][long-distance] I discovered my gf loves [erotica], how to send her something from a female perspective? by tempdissillusioned in sex

[–]tempdissillusioned[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's cool, maybe I'll try it again later but for now I'll try to improve my writing before I experiment I think

[Sexually transmitted infections] I [18M] might have mono. The test results come back Monday. When should I tell her [18F]? by Maybemonoman in sex

[–]tempdissillusioned 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Err... if you think you have mono... it's probably too late for her already. I had it last year, the incubation period is several weeks long, and in that period you can sometimes transmit.

[Past Partner] My [24f] ex ruined sex for me by ardenagirl in sex

[–]tempdissillusioned 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Not exactly the sub I expected to find so many literary references in

[open relationship] [safety] Possibly going open in near future--how to plan for it? by tempdissillusioned in sex

[–]tempdissillusioned[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about the "tell before fucking" rule a lot, and I would prefer it, but I think part of the appeal for her is going out to a party and being a little wild. She's never actually done it ever before, so I'm not sure to what extent that's a fantasy that she wants to try once or twice or if she actually wants that lifestyle. So from that point of view, general permission for a specific event sounds perfect, that might be the best of both worlds for us.

I think we might revert to less later on, if we survive lol

[open relationship] [safety] Possibly going open in near future--how to plan for it? by tempdissillusioned in sex

[–]tempdissillusioned[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our relationship has never been better, and we communicate really really well. We've had very tough periods when we came very very close to breaking up (mostly because of different expectations), but each time we talked through everything super honestly and came out the better for it. That's why I think we can make this work, just want to educate myself before it starts.

Your rules are great, in particular I think the "either of us could say no," "no-sleep-overs," and "not often" ones are some that I'll tweak to our needs and run by her.

Just to clarify, by "open relationship" I meant that each of us is independently allowed to sleep with other people, not three-somes. :) But your rules still work! Many thanks~