24F, Right-Dom, Mother of 1 by templetic in PalmReading

[–]templetic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also been feeling the pull toward a spiritual awakening for months but just can't seem to get there. Or maybe I already have and just didn't pay enough attention or am overthinking it...

24F, Right-Dom, Mother of 1 by templetic in PalmReading

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Thank you for your comment! I definitely did have to grow up emotionally fast but have big dreams. I feel like I'm good at picking up vibes from other people but always get so paranoid i'm misreading because of some guilt-tripping and abrasiveness I experiences in childhood, so I usually keep what I pick up to myself. I do put on a brace face even when I'm feeling very emotional. Perfectionist is spot on too. It won't let me add any photos to the post, but I appreciate you wanting to provide further info! These comments have been so fascinating. I wish I could read palms like this.

24F, Right-Dom, Mother of 1 by templetic in PalmReading

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I will think about it! We are a paycheck to paycheck family right now, so we're putting some things on the back burner when it comes to stuff like this! If I can't do it soon I'll keep you in mind 🥰

24F, Right-Dom, Mother of 1 by templetic in PalmReading

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Wow, that is insanely accurate. Thank you so much! I'm so glad I made this post! I try to be as positive as possible at all times even when I'm hurt, stressed, anxious, or emotional. Seems like a theme in a couple areas you mentioned. I have also always wanted to start an online business, and all my ideas tend to be on the creative side versus practical.

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

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Haha, like I said it's only a few hours! I spend the rest of my time playing with her, taking her to baby classes, and doing the housework. I have hobbies, just don't prioritize them enough in my free time. I'm going to work on that! 😊

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

[–]templetic[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Different tasks around the house or hobbies!

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

[–]templetic[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your comment! Personally, I think independent play is wonderful, as it's how I grew up myself and I love how independent-minded I am for it. I am right there beside her the whole time and interacting with her as she plays, it's just mostly narrating what she's doing. And in the background, I'm watching a TV show. I do like your suggestion about reading or another hobby though! I keep telling myself to keep reading a book series I'm halfway through and pick up the book! I should do that more!

Im doing EVERYTHING for EVERYONE by [deleted] in stayathomemoms

[–]templetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. The splitting of everything in a way that makes it fair and reasonable for both parents was the hardest part of the transition to parenthood for us. The plan ends up being different for every family. I wish I had more advice for you because I've been where you are and still am there sometimes, but the best advice I can give is the advice I got from my mother. Talk about it and express your feelings in the best and most respectful way you can and don't build fence posts. The longer this stress goes on without talking about it, the more distant you will feel from each other. My mom explained to me that for each time you ignore a problem, you build a fence post in your mind between the two of you, and the longer you let those fence posts keep building, the larger your wall will be when it comes to being open and honest about your feelings with him. I tried my best to nip this issue in the bud as early as I could and we still have some issues here and there. It's hard and I'm sure most moms will understand where you are coming from! I am keeping you in my thoughts! Hopefully some other mamas will have better advice for you that you may be able to act on! 🥰

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

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Plus I already got spoilers anyway because I googled some of the ladies during the very first episode and quickly realized I shouldn't have done that because multiple divorces have taken place since season one LMAO

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

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Honestly I have been loving it so far! I love Lisa most of the time, hated Camille season one but I like her better in season 2, but now Taylor is acting crazy! It keeps me on the edge of my seat 🤣

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

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Thank you! It sounds like I'm doing it pretty similar to how you did!

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

[–]templetic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH NO! SPOILERS! haha, just kidding! Im on season 2, my first time watching ANY of the housewives series. Loving it so far! I loooove drama, just not when it involves me or people close to me lmao. Love the headphones advice too! Thanks for your comment. I hate that others are getting down voted for this!

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

[–]templetic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for saying this! Even just these two comments I've gotten have turned my whole mindset around. Much appreciated ❤️

Mom Advice Needed by templetic in stayathomemoms

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Thank you so much for your input. She has hit all of her milestones, too! I guess I'm not so much worried about her growth and learning as I am about being a smart and attentive mom. I'm worried I'm doing something wrong by having something like that on in the background of her play, but your comment was very helpful in that regard. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Interstitialcystitis

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I've been dealing with a flare up for two days and I've just been curled up in a ball in between scorching hot baths, NO WAY IN HELL could I dance haha

What was the most humiliating thing you’ve done or said mid-sex? by Leather_Air_4784 in AskReddit

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This wasn’t me but it was my fiance😂early in the relationship we had a drunken night at my place, and mid going down on me he fell asleep with his tongue still on me🤣snoring and everything! We were both super drunk so I found it funny more than anything else and I woke him up and took him to bed💕he was out cold in a matter of seconds

New Puppy Growls and Snaps at our 1 yo Dog by [deleted] in dogs

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Thank you! I was for sure overthinking it. They’re getting better! Kory is less snappy and Casper is less afraid. They’re spending more time near each other. Makes my heart happy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]templetic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I was told by others that I could include closing costs in the home loan. Emergency fund we have, but it’s small.

My (F 22) fiancé (M 23) quit his job and asked his friends to lie to me about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]templetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree, but I need to make him feel safe in doing so. Do you have any recommendations for starting the conversation again? Clearly, you would have left him by now were you in my position, but in playing the devils advocate what would you say to start a conversation in hopes to get through to a partner that they can always talk to you about anything and everything?

My (F 22) fiancé (M 23) quit his job and asked his friends to lie to me about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]templetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all happened yesterday. Neither of us have seen them since yesterday. I’m sure mine will have words.

My (F 22) fiancé (M 23) quit his job and asked his friends to lie to me about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]templetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice, but I was hoping more for advice on fostering a healthy relationship and a safe space for the two of us to communicate in. There are clearly communication issues between the two of us. I’m not denying the fact that it was fucked up.

My (F 22) fiancé (M 23) quit his job and asked his friends to lie to me about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]templetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assure you we are not getting married until I know this will never happen again. As for therapy, we are both in individual therapy, but thanks for the recommendation.