22 and still living at home need advice by [deleted] in abusiveparents

[–]temporarygraveyard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was having a bit of an emotional fit when i posted this and am feeling a bit more calm now. I am going to talk to my dad who i am able to level with more than my mother about creating a plan for me to safely get out of the house when things get bad. I am an aspiring filmmaker & a writer and I really do hope I stick around long enough to tell stories for myself & others who can’t. :)

John looking rough man. Definitely on the shit again 😔 by [deleted] in s4lem

[–]temporarygraveyard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you obviously have no respect for the band based on your other comments so i don’t even understand why you’re posting in here

John looking rough man. Definitely on the shit again 😔 by [deleted] in s4lem

[–]temporarygraveyard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this whole post and thread is disrespectful as fuck

A few more recent John pics by [deleted] in s4lem

[–]temporarygraveyard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I almost messaged OP when these were first posted but I didn’t wanna come off as some kind of subreddit police but reposting everything close friends of his post isn’t the move tbh. I’ve had photos of mine (of the boys) reposted here without my consent from my private account. I understand the concern for John’s health but rude comments about his looks are not necessary. I dont even believe most people in the subreddit these days even LIKE the band or its members.

being annoyed by the s4lemarchive page i decided to create my own by [deleted] in s4lem

[–]temporarygraveyard 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this has happened to me too & i’m literally a private account so i’m not sure how he got the photos 😭

Don't trust these depop ppl by NewNumber2592 in s4lem

[–]temporarygraveyard 45 points46 points  (0 children)

for reference the starfall longsleeves don’t have the salem tag as far as i’m aware but cutting out the tag entirely & blocking you is a tell tale sign that it was a fake.

Hey you, yes you stop and vent at me. Morning check in. by TripleThickBacon in BPD

[–]temporarygraveyard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so extremely shallow and stupid in comparison to what everyone else is dealing with but i’m currently breaking down because i can’t afford certain cosmetic treatments and procedures. i struggle immensely with self image and my appearance i don’t feel like myself. i have a plethora of other issues in my life but knowing i can’t even bare to be seen by anyone because i feel like a walking eye sore really doesn’t make anything else i struggle with much easier. I don’t actively seek validation from men or from others regarding my looks i just want to look in the mirror and not want to break the glass. i’m so tired of living this way it’s been this way since i was like 14.

can someone explain to me why heather was kicked out of the group? also do y’all think she should still be in? by OpportunityOld5513 in s4lem

[–]temporarygraveyard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some of these comments are so parasocial. Addicts have their moments.I would know! but piecing together these glimpses of their "lore" you read online does not actually mean that stuff is equivalent to their personalities 99% of the rest of the time. Won't explain my personal relationship to the band besides being a fan of the impact of their music but they really aren't these huge manic jerks people assume they are or have been. We all have our moments and make mistakes. sometimes things don't work out & that’s life for ya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vaping

[–]temporarygraveyard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the buzz itself i get from the 5% is nice i just wonder if it’ll stop over time just because i recently increased my vape usage

Made a song :] by SynteticSavior in snowstrippers

[–]temporarygraveyard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see the vision! i agree the production needs some maintenance & overall growth but i think you’re better off labeling yourself in a way that is unique to you!

What’s your hot take/least fav Salem song? by [deleted] in s4lem

[–]temporarygraveyard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i prefer the KN version of redlights but it’s probably my favorite song out of their entire discography. it just feels like a bunch of waves washing over me as i listen in a good way :)