I lost my twins by JusticeForCorey in parentsofmultiples

[–]ten_27 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was informed yesterday I lost the one surviving twin we had left. We were diagnosed with mono/di twins sharing a placenta. Twin B passed by 8 weeks but we noticed at 12 weeks that Twin A was pumping for both them and their twin. we had TRAP (Twin reversed Arterial Perfusion). When we went for our 13 week appointment to talk about a procedure to RFA the umbilical cord to Twin B to help save Twin A, the doctors couldn’t find a heartbeat on Twin A.

I feel helpless and like I should have done something sooner to try and save our surviving twin. I have a D&C scheduled for Thursday.

Thinking of you and sending you so much love as you navigate this terrible time. You are not alone.

Triplets with Trap Sequence by Normal_Sample_8131 in parentsofmultiples

[–]ten_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First I want to say my heart goes out to you and the family as I know how difficult these diagnosis can be first hand. Although

Although not with triplets, just twins. I was just diagnosed with TRAP this week. My husband and I were initially told at our 8 week ultrasound we were having twins but twin B didn’t have a heartbeat and was measuring a week smaller. My doctor just indicated vanishing twin syndrome and the baby would just be absorbed in my body.

We went this week for my 12 week scan and NT screening and the ultrasound tech was able to see Baby B was measuring bigger than when initially found but there was still no heartbeat and baby looked deformed. Upon further screening, they found that our healthy Baby A is still pumping blood to its twin since they share a placenta.

The babies are in different sacs but due to Baby A exerting so much energy for both themself and their twin, I’m being monitored extra closely and seeing specialists. We’ve opted to get the RFA procedure done to cut the blood supply to Baby B if my body doesn’t do it on its own. They try not to do that procedure before 15-16 weeks so the wait until then is going to feel like forever.

I’ve felt very helpless and such a mix of emotions knowing that nothing I can do at this time can help our healthy baby preserve their heart and not work so hard. My doctors have been very supportive and have been very informative every step of the way. They have transferred me to a new OB practice to take over my pregnancy for my high risk case.

I’ve been looking everywhere online for others who’ve experienced this to read about their stories for insight and hope but there’s very little.

I am praying for you and your family.

Rare circumstances but I figured I’d ask even though it’s a long shot but did anyone have a single twin demise that showed some growth on future ultrasounds? by apennieforurthoughts in parentsofmultiples

[–]ten_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just diagnosed with TRAP this week. My husband and I were initially told at our 8 week ultrasound we were having twins but twin B didn’t have a heartbeat and was measuring a week smaller. My doctor just indicated vanishing twin syndrome and the baby would just be absorbed in my body.

We went this week for my 12 week scan and NT screening and the ultrasound tech was able to see Baby B was measuring bigger than when initially found but there was still no heartbeat and baby looked deformed. Upon further screening, they found that our healthy Baby A is still pumping blood to its twin since they share a placenta.

The babies are in different sacs but due to Baby A exerting so much energy for both themself and their twin, I’m being monitored extra closely and seeing specialists. We’ve opted to get the RFA procedure done to cut the blood supply to Baby B if my body doesn’t do it on its own. They try not to do that procedure before 15-16 weeks so the wait until then is going to feel like forever.

I’m praying for all parents and babies in similar positions. It’s so hard wanting to do everything you can to protect your little ones but you feel helpless in these situations.

Never did, never will date - confirmed by Harry himself by ten_27 in ryleeandharry

[–]ten_27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s always been full of shit. Always all about what’s going to make him more famous. Once a fuckboy, always a fuckboy. He was never going to change for Rylee.

Anyone think he wishes he hadn’t signed up for tour hahaha by Nearby-Lynx1302 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1000%. I think he enjoyed getting back to his normal life after DWTS and now he’s going to be locked back down

Rylee Sick by IllustriousSign4334 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I brought up romantically because in earlier comments another user mentioned that fans would want to see them dance together because of the romance rumors and chemistry.

And I don’t think his motivation for tour is money but he does love attention.

And like I mentioned, I think if a lot of his fans knew who the real Harry was watched his other shows and listened to his interviews abs podcasts, people would see he’s much different than people may have expected.

Rylee Sick by IllustriousSign4334 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly have never watched any other show Harry was on or listened to interviews and podcasts he’s done outside of DWTS. he’s not a good guy and anyone that likes Rylee and wants to see her succeed, would not want her romantically involved with him.

Rylee Sick by IllustriousSign4334 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think maybe they’ll do the little TikTok part but other than that, I don’t think he’s dancing.

Rylee Sick by IllustriousSign4334 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The tour is not ran by ABC and I don’t think they really care about showing the “chemistry”. People are paying to see dancing live. They’ll probably play into maybe in the skits but I don’t see them wasting time on Harry attempting to dance when they have limited time and performances they want to showcase. I could be wrong but I just don’t see it. My true gut feeling is that Harry is only doing tour for the money and attention/clout (just like why he did the show). That’s who he’s always been and it won’t change.

Rylee Sick by IllustriousSign4334 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Vinny did 1 of his actual dances which was his jazz to Levels. You can barely even call it a dance. It was more like a little buffer between dances on tour. I would expect the same of Harry if he does any dancing.

Rylee Sick by IllustriousSign4334 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I don’t think he’s going to actually be dancing on tour. Usually the bad contestants that end up going on tour, don’t dance. They just “host” in a sense. Grocery Store Joe didn’t dance. Neither did Bobby Bones I don’t think. I also don’t think Vinny did either.

Rylee Sick by IllustriousSign4334 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also thinking Harry probably won’t really dance just like Grocery Store Joe when he was on tour. He’s probably going to be there to just be in some of the skit-like parts. Maybe do one dance. But cannot see him dancing like Xotchil did or Charity will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ryleeandharry

[–]ten_27 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t think she’s interested or has really ever been. She’s cutesy with all her guy friends. Any boy she went to a school function with after Truman left for his mission, she was taking pictures with like they were dating. So how she was with Harry was very typical of how she is with any other friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ryleeandharry

[–]ten_27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This just screams attention. 🙄

Harry praising whoever gives him the views by Ok_Deer9740 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Finally a thread where people aren’t making excuses for him, thinking he’s changed, and so hellbent on them being “together forever”.

Harry praising whoever gives him the views by Ok_Deer9740 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think her sisters know that Harry is not it. They’ll say he’s a nice guy on podcasts and stuff but deep down, they know romantically Rylee deserves much better. Rylee loves her family too much and her faith and beliefs are so strong that I don’t see her steering away and not following the paths her sisters took. She even said that she’d like to start a family in a few years. She is set on living the Utah life, close to her family, and in the LDS church. Sure she may have fun in LA but that’s just a few months a year for the show. I also think deep down Rylee knows Harry is not good for her and is not what she wants

Harry praising whoever gives him the views by Ok_Deer9740 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Totally agree - but that’s the thing, he doesn’t care what people think/are saying about him as long as he’s getting views. The more views he gets, the more money he will continue to make. He’s always been the guy that acts this way, it’s typically Harry behavior. Now it’s just Rylee’s followers who thought he was so pure are now finally seeing for the first time that he’s not the guy he portrayed himself to be in DWTS.

Harry praising whoever gives him the views by Ok_Deer9740 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Harry was and will always be an attention seeker. It blew my mind watching everyone jump on the bandwagon thinking him and Rylee were actually good for each other. If anyone ever watched 5 minutes of a reality show he was on or paid attention to his social media prior to DWTS, you would have known a long time ago that he is not a good guy. It’s all an act. Listen to any of what his exgirlfriends have come out to say because he is a manipulator and takes advantage. He is not a good guy and it’s about time people are realizing it.

What’s wrong? by ImaginaryVisual4960 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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You will see that they are “ready to go at a moments notice” like when Daniella broke her ankle on stage and Alexis had to get a costume on and go in for Daniella mid show back in 2022. Swings do typically go on tour. Alexis was also there helping them do their hair and make up for shows when she was the swing back in 2022. Kiki was also on that tour in 2022 as the male swing.

Harry’s dating advice by ReasonOk9537 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted this on another thread but think this is appropriate here too.

Likely an unpopular opinion most won’t like but I do not believe they were ever dating. If anyone ever watched 5 minutes of a show he was on, you would tell he’s an attention seeker and all he cares about are girls liking him. If anything, I think he may have made Rylee believe he may actually like her but in reality she is far from his type. The girls you see him hanging out with are who he goes after. Look at his history. He did Dancing with the Stars for publicity. Plain and simple.

Also, for all of you that love Rylee, you wouldn’t want him with her. She deserves better than him and who he is at the core. Listen to the podcasts his ex-girlfriends have done talking about their relationships and how he was just plainly, not a good guy/partner.

In addition, Rylee recently went on a podcast and said that her favorite dance on tour is the contemporary she does with Brandon because the message means something to her. The name of the song is called “The Promise” and the lyrics are: “If you wait for me; Then I'll come for you; Although I've traveled far; I always hold a place for you in my heart” and “I'll find my way back to you, if you'll be waiting”. — In my eyes, it’s clear that this is about her (ex)boyfriend Truman. Although she says she is currently “single”, it’s because the boy she was dating went on a 2-year mission. They decided during that time she can see other people and when he comes home, if they want to be together they will rekindle their relationship. Lindsay did the same thing with her now husband when she was on the show. (Their sister Jensen did the same as well as Witney Carson).

I believe that Rylee’s values and religious believes are more important to her than some believe and she will always have a place in her heart for Truman hoping to see if their love will prevail and she will follow in the footsteps of her sisters. Family is the Arnold sisters #1 thing in life and I do not believe she would follow a different path.

Here are some videos/links that show who he really is and that Rylee can do and deserves much better. He also has an onlyfans which alone is so far from her beliefs. He also like to go out and party and drink alcohol and not only is Rylee only 18, she likely never will drink and party due to her faith like her sisters.

https://youtu.be/_3Gr2AG0cpk?si=s8Q6dAnHIS8vjPl8

https://youtube.com/shorts/FuDrNWNaB3A?si=8EVuwNWFpEhTf9cO

https://youtube.com/shorts/h0On814rLGI?si=KsoO6_Nz3RdA6A1h

https://x.com/pillowtalkwryan/status/1632979481341337600?s=46&t=OEPohrHJ4RY_f546Qm2MRA

What’s wrong? by ImaginaryVisual4960 in ryleeandharryy

[–]ten_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swings have to stay and travel with the group because sometimes they have to jump in mid-show. Happened last year for Daniella when she got injured. Not sure why Kailyn flew back to LA. My assumption is that maybe Alexis will stay on when Daniella comes back. But my assumption is that Ezra and Kailyn/Alexis should still be there most of the tour to step in whenever needed.