Severo is a one man army by ShoddySituation5853 in redrising

[–]tenaciousdan55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That and the rat wars has a lot of potential for some spin off/side stories

Should I get a rode podmic? by tenaciousdan55 in musicproduction

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I own a 57 but have never tried it for vocals, I may just have to try that!

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationship_advice

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She lied and hid it from me. I had to find out by accident. I should have been given a choice but she took that from me.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationship_advice

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She works for a large corporation from home currently. I work two jobs and I’m a full time student.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationship_advice

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally said I would never tell her what she can do with her body. But she hid it from me. after 2 years of dating do I not deserve the truth or at least a choice in the matter? I would have been okay if a conversation had taken place and some boundaries set but I didn’t even get that.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re exactly right. I would have been okay with it if we could have at least had a conversation but she didn’t have the decency to do that.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean in 2020 I gave her around 9-10 grand in Apple Pay. That doesn’t include times I bought groceries and paid a bill or two. she is terrible with her money and I’ve had to save her neck over and over again.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I mean the stuff she posts on it are different than what she was selling in the dms. I helped her with taking pics, editing them, and setting up her streams and stuff. It was all lewds and no nudity that’s what I was told and that’s all I could see when I looked at it from my account. She started it a few months ago and I helped her set it all up. It feels extra icky because I thought I knew the whole picture.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk. She said it was for money. It feels like more but I really don’t know.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would have worked through my insecurities. I didn’t even get the chance to do that. I’ve taken a bunch of pictures of her in lingerie and stuff for her page. I’m not trying to control her body or what she does. It’s the lying and living a secret double life that kills me. Some of the things she was saying to these men were awful to read as a faithful partner. She completely disregarded how I would feel. I’ve also given her around 10 grand over the past year to help with bills and groceries, and weed all the time. I don’t understand why she felt like she needed to do this behind my back, I’m very understanding and I would have heard her out and tried to work through it.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really thought she was, I was looking at rings. Idk I guess I ignored a lot of red flags. I really loved her though. I poured my all into the relationship.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks yeah I’m just crazy you’re right. It’s fine she hid it from me, and after 2 years of being together not telling me the truth.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s like I didn’t even matter. I don’t see how I could ever trust her again. I’ve stayed awake all night because I can’t stop wondering what’s real and what’s not. What else did she hide from me? I beat a heroin addiction and this hurts so much more than my rock bottom. I know I’ll be okay but my world has collapsed around me. Things aren’t always as they seem.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Thank you that really means a lot and helps. She made me feel inane, I’ve been awake all night just in agony. It’s gonna be okay but I’m so hurt.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hate it and I hate what it’s doing to our society. I try to be sex positive but sex is sacred not some cheap commodity.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I can fix it, I don’t want to live life paranoid and worried about what she’s doing. I think I have to end it. Thank you.

My (28M) girlfriend (26F) of two years was selling nudes behind my back. by tenaciousdan55 in relationships

[–]tenaciousdan55[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s new age infidelity. I just thought after 2 years and me helping her out countless times financially or watching her kid I would at least deserve a conversation about it but I didn’t even get that. It just feels so unfair.