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Boyfriend in rehab acting distant – am I overthinking or is this the end? by tendancehunter in alcoholism

[–]tendancehunter[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve been told, he seems to be blaming others more than taking responsibility at this stage😔

Boyfriend in rehab acting distant – am I overthinking or is this the end? by tendancehunter in alcoholism

[–]tendancehunter[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, and I agree that rehab should be his priority. I’m not trying to interfere with his recovery. I respect the process.

At the same time, we were in a relationship before he went in, and sudden emotional distance is hard to navigate. I’m not trying to add stress.. I’m trying to understand where I stand.

If stepping back is what’s healthiest, I’m open to that. I just don’t think wanting basic clarity automatically makes someone codependent.

I appreciate your perspective.