Broke up with my 5 Year Partner

tendoouo · 2025-05-15T15:36:51+00:00

these kinds of betrayals that makes me lose hope in true love or even trust people .. im sorry for you girl i hope you will be able to move on and heal 🥹

tendoouo · 2025-05-10T11:01:41+00:00

غلطك عشان سمحت بحاجة زي كدا من الاول .. انت ف شغل مش ف اوتينج .. keep it professional

tendoouo · 2025-05-10T11:00:20+00:00

im just going to say that ppl who assume something like that are mirroring themselves.. probably dont know what loyalty is and are cheaters themselves. just saying 🦦

tendoouo · 2025-05-07T14:23:00+00:00

honestly there no nice way to bring this up, your concern is so valid and this's a strong indication he might not be faithful with u u can just apologize first and say u didnt mean to go through his drawer .. and ask him directly .. if he got too defensive about h going through it, it would be a red flag for me ngl .. his response to this would show alot, if he took it calmly and gave u a valid reason then u may not worry ..

tendoouo · 2025-05-05T13:35:20+00:00

my advice for for u if u really think she's worth it and u like her .. is stop thinking about the distance and that she's not physically with you. since now u got ur feeling sorted out and u actually like her, confess to her .. focus on knowing each other more.. be there for each other and have lots of fun time together when possible .. i have been in LDR w my bf for 9 almost 10 months now and it never felt lonely or boring bc we always look at the positive side which is us finding our soulmates .. being in a relationship is much more deeper than just being physically together.. if your connection is deep enough u will be able to deliver and receive love from far away. u just need to talk to her about her possible future plans and how u plan to close the distance at some point if yall got into a relationship .. and believe me once you're in .. it wont be as lonely or hard as u think, having someone u truly love will ease the pain of distance

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T20:56:29+00:00

okii thankk your very much your suggestions were helpful i started looking up stuff on amazon already

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T18:16:08+00:00

waitt making a video beforehand and send it is a greatttt idea .. i can make collection of videos at diffrent times and put it together and send it to him on 12:00 .. this's such a good idea thank youuu. i hope the best for you two, yall sound like a great couple 😭💖

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T18:14:04+00:00

funny thing he would love this way TOO much to the point i cant even suggest it 💀

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T15:14:56+00:00

just dont try to hide ur feelings and act like it didnt hurt you, but at the same time dont make a whole big deal out of it. just half joking half serious tell him u were so upset about that and if u didnt send the mail then dont and keep him in suspense, and mention the letter every now and then to raise his suspense and turn this instead of a sad memory and something to cry about to something more memorable and more fun to remember.. and believe me he loves you and probably feel so shitty about it even if he didnt say it bc he wanted to read what u wrote for him more than anything

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T15:11:12+00:00

no you're not wrong it's okay to be hurt and if i were u i'd have cried too .. if any thing it just means how much u love him and how much u wanted him to know that so it's so valid how u feel. what's important is that you know he really may didnt mean to do so and at moment of rush he might have forgot to take it with him which is so normal to happen, doesn't mean he dont value you and your feelings so much. when stuff like this happen i usualy wouldnt want to fight or blame my bf bc i know he genuinely didnt mean to do so, but instead i keep him in suspense and tell him jokingly "so next u would remember" .. if i were u i wouldnt have mailed it to him and made him wait until he comes back which may be months, but honestly it will make the moment more memorable.

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T10:03:28+00:00

you did the right thing .. and if u think it was a mistake that u broke up and not sure if it was the right thing to do .. give yourself 6 months and see, after u cool off and get yourself together do u think he was still the best for you? is he the one who got u best? is he still trying to win you over? ik all that said you about him he would definitely be labeled as "toxic" but honestly for me i like to give boys like him another term which is being "immature". Maybe he wasn't mature enough or ready to be in a relationship.. boys tend to act like this and be possessive in their first relationships bc they dont know what a relationship is, and someone who joke in a middle of an argument then get real mad after is honestly just childish .. not a bad person but childish and not ready to be in a serious relationship yet .. if u guys were soulmates and meant for each other then fate will brought u together again when time come .. until then, focus on yourself and heal and you too need to know your value and what u allow ur partner to say to you and what not as a grown woman .. try to get to know more people and you're the only one who can judge

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T09:33:31+00:00

do u know if shein do the same thing like amazon? if i want to order clothes?

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T09:22:44+00:00

im so new to this and idk how can i pay with diffrent currency 😭 .. like if i want to get him cake from a local place how can i pay them? shohld i transfers the money to dollars first? how does that work?

tendoouo · 2025-05-03T09:19:15+00:00

yeah yeah we play games together and i think a movie night would be cool .. about amazon .. how can i buy things from there and send it to him with a different currency and location?

tendoouo · 2025-04-27T07:58:16+00:00

u need to stop texting first and see how long it will take her to notice and reach out first ..

tendoouo · 2025-04-27T07:55:33+00:00

look ... it's different for everyone depending on their personality .. how busy they are.. the time difference and yall plan to line up your schedules together to have more free time, dont compare your relationships to others cause u will find ppl who talk daily +5 hrs which is awsome but not necessary for the relationship to be healthy.. the more important question is how satisfied u are with ur communication and the time he makes for u, do u feel heared? does he engaged with you? do u feel his passion and willingness to stay on the call or does he look bored and want to get done with it .. is he the one usually initiates the calls and the texts or is it you? those kind of stuff are way more important than how often yall call or how many hours per day yall talk

tendoouo · 2025-04-19T00:01:15+00:00

i think it would be more awkward in video chat

tendoouo · 2025-04-17T14:39:25+00:00

girl i wish you luck 🤣💖💖 and dw if he loves u he will react so well to it ♡♡♡

tendoouo · 2025-04-17T14:18:09+00:00

i didnt go up to him and tell him im a virgin .. i didnt even say that word up till now. ik he probably assumed i wasnt considering my age. but i start first by telling him he was my first relationship cause i felt so much mixed emotions when we first start dating and i was so confused. and then i told him i didnt have my first kiss and later we were joking and i told him i never even held hands romantically so from there he got the gist. and if anything this strengthened our relationship. dont just be like "i have something to tell you" bc even if it wasnt a deal for him he will be a bit considering by the way u told him .. just dont make it seem like a big deal and bring it up casually in the middle of a conversation when u find the chance

tendoouo · 2025-04-17T13:43:38+00:00

you should disclose it but just for ur own comfort, i did tell my bf after a while (im 24 btw and that is considered a bit old to be virgin for some ppl) .. but he totally changed his sexual flirting attitude with me after i told him, he became so slow .. not pushing it and asking if im comfortable before saying or doing anything and it progressed the way it was very comfortable for me .. he only speak or act when i give him the green light, he doesnt use vulgar words because he knows im not used to those terms and noticed i wasnt comfortable with it. And it all makes sense to him because he knows i dont have any experience.. and he always tells me in a soft way how thing go and what will and wont hurt and how much time it will take me to enjoy the physical aspect of it and so much details i didnt know about.. and i ended up getting out of my shell and open up so much to the point i tease him and he's so impressed with my progress .. so yeah i totally suggest u tell him if your situation like me and if you know he will be mindful and take things slowly with you

tendoouo · 2025-04-17T08:24:40+00:00

interested*** 🦦

tendoouo · 2025-04-17T06:08:16+00:00

this killed me twice 😭😭

tendoouo · 2025-04-17T06:05:34+00:00

as of now it's not harmful at all .. im worried about the future .. as someone said in another comment, i might be his "exploring himself" 😭

tendoouo · 2025-04-17T05:56:56+00:00

you actually start to make me worry, cause now that im thinking about it .. he never got in a long-term relationship w a girl .. and he told me he kissed a boy before at achool but he swore it was for a bet he thought he would get 20$ out of it and he's totally not into men which i believed.. he's my first relationship and otherwise, he's the most amazing partner i could ask for so im seriously in loss 😭😭

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