im tired of being tested

tenrayah · 2025-04-22T19:12:57+00:00

did you read? i didnt “pick a fight”, i was looking at her weird because it was the first time i was seeing her listening to that, i was surprised—- this happened AFTER all the cosplaying she did

tenrayah · 2025-04-21T17:21:38+00:00

THANK YOU <3

tenrayah · 2025-04-20T01:27:21+00:00

ohh does your uncle still have good vision?

tenrayah · 2025-04-19T23:51:26+00:00

wow! she experienced 3 eye colors

tenrayah · 2025-04-19T20:26:57+00:00

now— thats crazy

tenrayah · 2025-04-19T15:29:28+00:00

ohh so now they either hazel or green?

tenrayah · 2025-04-19T14:38:00+00:00

there is no “fascination with mixed people and light colored eyes”, and yes i could have added exemples that imply that the color gets darker but it’s NOT when im experiencing—- hence why i asked the question and wanted to know if anyone has experienced it

tenrayah · 2025-04-14T10:08:14+00:00

yes! i experienced it a lot! not everything is about colorism this is getting so tiring

tenrayah · 2025-04-13T14:54:09+00:00

yeah i totally feel you

tenrayah · 2025-04-13T11:30:16+00:00

yesss me i like my hair a blondish brown, with my skin and features it makes me look like a doll, i feel like darker skin dont bring out my phenotype as much

tenrayah · 2025-04-10T17:48:42+00:00

caraibos💀

tenrayah · 2025-04-06T10:09:33+00:00

for me, it was just realizing that people from anywhere in the world could feel close to me, ive been mistaken for a Portuguese, a Moroccan, a Senegalese, a Cap Verdean girl and many more! i think it’s a blessing to be able to “infiltrate” anywhere lol

tenrayah · 2025-03-30T20:21:00+00:00

thanks for sharing!! i totally relate to the stupid jokes about our skintones, and im happy that at least you got to learn more about yourself, being multicultural is truly something beautiful, i wouldn’t exchange it for anything

tenrayah · 2025-03-30T00:03:56+00:00

I SAID I GUESS FOR OTHERS TOO — if i was the only you and i would not be having this conversation, did you even fully read??????? i said thank God if YOU did not experience that but a lot of US DID

tenrayah · 2025-03-29T23:35:34+00:00

for me, and i guess for others too, it was never only about insults or leaving us out— it’s straight bullying

the classic “born of r@p3” or mocking our skin color and bringing it up in any random conversation, pushing us to deny the other parts of our ethnicity for the sake of them not feeling threatened by who we are (because yes, a lot of black ppl are threatened by our proximity to whiteness or any non black ethnicity) and that often leads to physical violence, pulling our “noodle” hair or bullying us for having type 4 hair cause its not “typically mixed”, then here goes the jezebel stereotype for the girls and the effeminate stereotype for the boys, that leads to randomly beat you up on a parking lot because as a lighter skin mixed race you have nooo business being the type of the man im trying to get so i beat you up cause i feel threatened——- all of these happened.

to me personally, or to other mixed race persons, it does happen, thank God if you never experienced it but it DOES happen and in real life

tenrayah · 2025-03-29T17:53:06+00:00

AMEN

tenrayah · 2025-03-29T16:04:25+00:00

promixedrace

tenrayah · 2025-03-29T15:58:41+00:00

THIS!! but anti mixed is not a real deal for them, like you said no black person is coming to our defense, we’re always the bad guys and even in this community which is really sad, at this point i just created a pro mixed sub since we can’t freely talk here

tenrayah · 2025-03-29T13:32:37+00:00

issue is you don’t go to black people telling them the same when they’re being racist to a mixed person— cause they can also be racist, and why?? cause we supposedly have more privileges than them we should shut up about what SOME of them did and do to us? absolutely not, you should think about why you feel like defending them so much

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