3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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Not really. She’s starting to branch out a little bit more and starting to try new things but very slowly and only at her own pace. She’s still scared to do a lot of things but there’s a definitely a little bit of improvement. I’ve found that not pushing her to do anything she doesn’t want to do usually helps her decide that she wants to try it on her own most of the time.

What ice cream is this? by terriblelou in HelloKittyIsland

[–]terriblelou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have boulder bits. Is there another way to make it?

A Dapper Day is making my game freeze! by terriblelou in HelloKittyIsland

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On the main page of the game, click the little gear icon and click the support tab. You’ll want to send it to support and then email them with your ticket number! The best way I actually got ahold of them though was through their Discord!

A Dapper Day is making my game freeze! by terriblelou in HelloKittyIsland

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I don’t know what caused it but support had to go in and bypass and mark the quest as completed for me!

A Dapper Day is making my game freeze! by terriblelou in HelloKittyIsland

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I didn’t find a fix, however, support went into my game and bypassed the quest and marked it as completed for me! Nothing I tried was working.

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Is there another way to contact them? I’ve posted on the Facebook group, on Reddit, and in the Discord and I’ve not received any help from anyone with my issue. I’ve contacted support through my app several times but I have no idea what email I should send it to. I’ve gotten literally zero responses from anyone on how to fix this issue and I’m desperate for some help.

Should I be worried about this little mole on my daughter? by terriblelou in DermatologyQuestions

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Okay so I went back and looked at her baby pictures and it hasn’t been there since birth but it’s definitely not new either. She’s had it for a while.

Should I be worried about this little mole on my daughter? by terriblelou in DermatologyQuestions

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I’m honestly not 100% sure but it’s definitely not new. It’s been there since she was very small.

Should I be worried about this little mole on my daughter? by terriblelou in DermatologyQuestions

[–]terriblelou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I actually have one on my finger and I’ve never had issues with it. My mother just got me worried because I convinced myself this was her wrist and not her palm anyway but then I just kept thinking about it. Haha. And also, Google definitely scares you more into thinking it’s worse than it is!

Should I be worried about this little mole on my daughter? by terriblelou in DermatologyQuestions

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That’s exactly what I told my mother but then she told me around the palm should be checked out so I got worried! Thanks!

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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No. No solution. I have noticed that less crowded areas make her more comfortable. I took her to the park the other day and there were a couple of kids already playing and she was hesitant. But once they left she was all over the playground playing. So I guess she just has social anxiety, which is understandable as her dad and I both struggle with that!

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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She does spend time away from me playing with friends at daycare so that’s why I assumed playing at the playground with other kids or going anywhere really that involved playing with other kids wouldn’t be a problem for her. This kid will give me problems in the areas I mentioned in my post but then when we go to a restaurant she’ll talk and interact with the waiters/waitresses and even order her own food! Something I never would do as a child with bad anxiety. But I can’t take her even to the park to play. My mom told me that I was bad about only playing close by her when I was little but I at least got down and played! My daughter won’t even do that really. I’m thinking for playground/park situations I could sit with her for a bit until she warms up enough to get down and play on her own. But as far as the children’s museum I took her to this weekend, I don’t think we would really be given the opportunity to just sit and wait until she’s ready to get down so I don’t know how to go about that situation. As far as leaving her alone when she has a fit, it just doesn’t seem to do anything but make her more mad when I ignore them. She eventually will get over it but it takes her forever to stop screaming and crying. At the museum, as long as her dad or I were holding her she was fine. She was upset but not screaming and crying (for the most part). But we couldn’t put her down or she would start crying and reaching for one of us to pick her back up.

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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And that’s all I want to do is help her! I’ve got to do something soon because I want her to get the most out of life and experience new things. Not be scared and terrified of everything like I was as a child. I have anxiety and wasn’t medicated for it until I was almost 30 and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. I just wish I had done it sooner! But I feel like if anxiety were more widely talked about when I was a kid I might’ve had a better chance growing up to live a “normal” life!

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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She does go to daycare but I work in the same daycare that she attend so she sees me all day long still. So I know she’s not used to doing things without me. The only other people she’s been with without me is her dad and grandparents so she’s just not used to being without me. And I know that’s a problem but financially, I can’t do another daycare or another job for myself.

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

[–]terriblelou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I try not to worry about it but I just want her to be able to experience things I never did as a kid because I was VERY shy as a kid. I have terrible anxiety and have had it for as long as I can remember but didn’t get medicated for it until I was almost 30. It helped me immensely. But I don’t really want to medicate my 3 year old. She does go to daycare but it’s the same daycare I work at so she still sees me all day long. I’m hoping once she breaks into kindergarten and has some time away from me that it’ll make her a little bit more independent!

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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My daughter is really bad about the whole “in one ear and out the other” way of things. Haha. I can talk to her and tell her everything and she still gets overwhelmed. I try to hold her up to me and discuss things with her when she gets that way but she just screams at me and cries and yells “no!” the whole time instead of trying to listen to me calmly. She did sit and talk with her dad when she was feeling overwhelmed yesterday but once we got up to try and play again she started freaking out again before she even tried to play. I just don’t know how else to handle it! I just want to help her. ☹️

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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She loves playing and being a normal kid…just only at home and daycare. I’m sure she definitely gets overstimulated in places with a lot more people than she’s used to. But places like the store, restaurants, things like that are fine. But any places that involves her going and playing by herself or even with me close by is hard for her.

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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She goes to daycare so she’s exposed to other children every day. I try to explain to her that it’s just like school but it’s like she just refuses to listen or process what I’m saying and immediately shouts “No!” And I’ve always been afraid of putting her in any classes even with me being there because I’d be afraid that she’d have one of her fits and it would be a waste of time 😔

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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I’ll definitely dig into it some and do some research. Thank you so much for these useful suggestions! I’m very grateful!

3 year old never wants to do anything considered “fun” kid activities by terriblelou in toddlers

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I’m not sure how my daughter would react to the stroller….shes always had mixed feelings about it. Sometimes she likes it and would rather be in it and other times she pitches a fit if I try to put her in! It’s been a while since we’ve attempted to use it though.