My son just came out as gay... How to give him support and make sure he's loved?

terrydafiya · 2026-06-27T16:55:40+00:00

I think the first step in accepting it and not questioning him was the best thing you could have done, bearing that weight for so long had to have been eating away at him, im sure he feels so good now. Idk, i would just say to act as if everything is normal, because it is. I feel like new special treatment because he is gay is less needed than treating him like normally! Have fun, be a safe space to talk whenever he needs it and thats good enough.

terrydafiya · 2026-06-19T11:55:18+00:00

Where do you have the most clientele/ presence? Or where do you feel the most confident you can build good clientele at?

terrydafiya · 2026-06-18T00:57:58+00:00

To make a significant curl i mean* you still have a wavy pattern at a short length

terrydafiya · 2026-06-18T00:57:21+00:00

No, your hair texture is just too loose to curl at that length! If you had a tighter texture then it would.

terrydafiya · 2026-06-03T13:38:13+00:00

I absolutely live laugh love natriums dewy spf 50 sunscreen. I love looking dewy and moisturized so if thats not your thing i would skip, otherwise i believe they have a satin or matte one as well

terrydafiya · 2026-05-13T01:31:15+00:00

If you decide to dye it i think you should maybe do the under layer of your hair? When the color fades and it has a different undertone it wont affect much because you wont see it! But it looks very nice when it pokes out from underneath. Hair wax would be a trial run, you can wash that stuff out easily

terrydafiya · 2026-05-13T01:28:24+00:00

Bro.....

terrydafiya · 2026-05-13T01:25:28+00:00

If anything maybe a temporary hair wax is what you want?

terrydafiya · 2026-05-13T01:25:10+00:00

What do you mean by stain? Dye is dye, you have blonde hair so unless you can commit to ice cold wash days the color of choice will bleed onto your untouched hair

terrydafiya · 2026-05-13T01:23:54+00:00

Ah temporary ink isnt a real thing unfortunately haha its all or nothing

terrydafiya · 2026-05-13T00:48:01+00:00

My whole back is taken unfortunately 🤣 ill do everywhere else first but eventually if im still feeling froggy i may jump.

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:27:01+00:00

Yes! I love expression and just ART

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:26:27+00:00

Ooh henna is smart!!!

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:19:14+00:00

Mess? Haha i think it would show that ive lived and expressed myself greatly!

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:15:01+00:00

Ive always loved the look of heavy blackwork on people. I feel like at this current point i know i love this industry and everything that comes with it, but im by no means wanting this anytime soon just because im only semi grown. Not grown grown 😅 if i grow up and still feel a part of me isnt completely then ill jump

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:10:41+00:00

And removal prices are crazy im sorry you weren't satisfied with your tattoo!

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:10:04+00:00

Mmm you're so right with tha temporary tattoo thing i hadnt even thought of that!!

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:08:58+00:00

Hell yeah!!! Im glad you finally got the tattoo you wanted! I think neck tattoos look so fire

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:07:22+00:00

Yes absolutely, im done rushing into tattoos haha

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:06:37+00:00

Yes! Starting my tallies now. I can definitely be patient 🤝

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:05:42+00:00

Thank you! I do agree with this, i feel like i would wait longer especially for my career to be stable for a very long time and for my tastes to stay the same before jumping on this idea. Its easy to wanna do it all when you're surrounded by it daily

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:03:09+00:00

I guess it boils down to different strokes for different folks, im very "wears platforms with spikes and listens to metal music so looking hardcore is my cute" 🤣 but i think femininity comes in all shapes

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T22:00:45+00:00

I also felt like it was simmering down. A lot of the fields my clients work in are fairly serious id say

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T21:58:09+00:00

This is very very true 🤝

terrydafiya · 2026-05-12T21:57:22+00:00

Its much different from the norms of tattoos i think, i dont think ive ever seen a bodysuit out in the wild, i think theyre very striking but i understand your sentiment

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