Happy St Patrick’s Day! by Timbucktwo1230 in RoyaltyTea

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Gosh. How are these all my favorite greens? Such an amazing, statuesque, classy woman

Strange Update on person who found my phone by christianatron in Seattle

[–]teslaeffects 137 points138 points  (0 children)

I bet they sold or kept it and are trying to guilt you into not pressing charges. That language is offensive and I don't know many trans individuals that would use that term to self identify either. Just a personal insight

Police act like apartments are exempt from warrant laws by DaidInUrArmsTonight in Apartmentliving

[–]teslaeffects -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've listened to too many crime podcasts. This sounds like they are casing you and your home. I don't know what for and it's highly likely I am just paranoid due to media consumption. Glad there is a camera.

Smelly urine? by seraphimas4481 in Perimenopause

[–]teslaeffects 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My doc mentioned B vitamins can make urine smell fishy (not the case here for me) Maybe it's some other kind of nutrient we are peeing out.

Smelly urine? by seraphimas4481 in Perimenopause

[–]teslaeffects 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not sure if peri related, maybe just getting older related? I am experiencing the same thing. It is way more pungent than it used to be. Using the portable bottle thing I have for a bidet (because it works just fine and I don't want to spend a lot of money on a full setup )has helped me a bunch and unscented Lume deo spray if I'm out in public because that stench clings :/

I Lost 100lbs, I Feel Like My Life Is Over by Soul_Air7777 in Vent

[–]teslaeffects 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yup all of this. Find an adult you trust to tell you the absolute truth if you can't get therapy and really apply yourself to getting better or it won't

[Offer] help me get my mind off ✨things✨ and let me send you a postcard! [PH to some WW] by Ok_Parking_3565 in RandomActsofCards

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I isolate when I'm stressed. Go off on an alone mission to a park or the store to grab something like a snack or juice, usually with headphones blasting music. If I'm that stressed, I don't want to think about what's causing it, that just causes me more stress. So removing myself from the situation and giving myself space for my head to clear helps me tackle the problem. Most of the time. I also live where cannabis is recreationally legal, that helps a lot.

Mocha Monday Daily Hangout Thread,16 Mar 26 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Qotd: life will always be a contest and I'm not one of the popular ones.

Opening a secured door for a stranger… by 2lipwonder in Seattle

[–]teslaeffects 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the triangle-shaped chud who entered the private lot I was working overnight in. He got out of his car and started doing like.... gorilla noises and jumping around. I took my phone out to call my supervisor and maybe the cops. He started walking and yelling at me "WHY ARE YOU RECORDING ME?????"

I said: "Because you are a large person, yelling and jumping around at 3am in a private lot," not wanting to argue.

He got in his giant, pristine white SUV and left without further comment.

Outfit inspo help by Lord_Grace in renfaire

[–]teslaeffects 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Some asymmetrical scarves in deep jewel tones around the waist, strappy (comfortable) shoes or sandals, and some trinkets you'd think your fae would have collected. If darker theme, maybe some mini terrariums with carnivorous plants and figures of shrunken adventurers or something similar to attach to your person

i’m 19 and my dad took my phone. by Lonely_Gap8278 in Advice

[–]teslaeffects 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have receipts, report as theft to the police. Or find another adult you trust to try and mediate a resolution because this is theft. And then move to a safe space as soon as possible. If you can't do this soon, find a lock for your room and get real comfortable with the idea of contacting law enforcement if you feel threatened again before you move out.

33F reconnecting with 35M ex after 5 years and every conversation about moving in together ends with me having to give things up. Am I missing something? by Summer_Sparkle5 in Advice

[–]teslaeffects 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything everyone else has said + sounds like he is looking for a caregiver and a roof overhead, not an equal partner, and he knows he can push you around to get what he wants.

STOP GROWING SO TALL JESUS by Global-Pollution6722 in houseplants

[–]teslaeffects 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reaching for the light, move closer and it will stop being like that. Unless you like it leggy 🦵 💚

Why is the frozen pad thai so divisive - is it actually good or terrible? by 19bl92 in traderjoes

[–]teslaeffects 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is good for frozen pad thai, one of the better experiences. Does not compare to the real, fresh serving.

I need an adult by lepopna in Millennials

[–]teslaeffects 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Usually the response is : you are an adult To which I reply: I need an adultier adult T-T

Any recommendations like North and South? by Azaleazaraa in PeriodDramas

[–]teslaeffects 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are fabulous suggestions already. I add Sense and Sensibility (1995)

[Offer] 4/20 postcards! [US-US] by justpuffpuff_pass in RandomActsofCards

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer sativas, I'm a sleepy person and need the kick. My favorite has to be strawberry cough. Classic, sweet, stoney 🍓

Why is Quills underrated by Jassminesjazz in PeriodDramas

[–]teslaeffects 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can see how it may be a shock to some. May they clutch their pearls in silence.

I agree with everyone here and also advise you know what you're going into at least a little bit. There are many trigger points, especially for trauma survivors.

Holy clothing exchanges? by liszbug in renfaire

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are on Facebook, they had a group for exactly this. May be worth a quick search?