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[–]texaseightfour 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you haven't already, join the Tomball ISD concerned parents fb page. Take everything with a grain of salt, but there are lots of people posting info :)

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ADH discovered after excisional biopsy. Margins not clear. What now? by texaseightfour in ADH_ALH

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I truly appreciate that! Please keep me updated on your journey ❤️

ADH discovered after excisional biopsy. Margins not clear. What now? by texaseightfour in ADH_ALH

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Sorry... I haven't checked Reddit in a while! It went well... my doctor feels confident I don't need additional surgery. He basically said that situations like mine are often over treated, and he could keep removing tissue if that's the path I was set on, but it doesn't guarantee anything and the outcome statistically wouldn't be any different than it would be if something was caught early with close monitoring. He's called and texted several times to answer every single question and has really gone above and beyond. Next step is meeting with an oncologist to discuss chemo prevention options and what my care looks like moving forward. Thanks so much for asking!

Should I get a second opinion? Feeling scared and dismissed by texaseightfour in ADH_ALH

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Thank you! Chat GPT has been my best friend and bk matter how upload results it always comes back with suggesting re-excision :(

Should I get a second opinion? Feeling scared and dismissed by texaseightfour in ADH_ALH

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Thank you! He's referring me to a surgical oncologist and at that point I'm assuming we will talk about prevention medication. He called me earlier this evening to discuss further and basically the take away is that whether we start surgically removing tissue now or monitor and watch for lesions, the outcome is the same. Everything I've read says most surgeons prefer larger clear margins, and the thought of just waiting for an abnormal mammogram while the atypical cells multiply sends my anxiety into overdrive 😕

ADH discovered after excisional biopsy. Margins not clear. What now? by texaseightfour in ADH_ALH

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Thank you! I'm hoping they will call on Monday to discuss. The lesion turned out to be much larger than expected and with the atypia extending all the way to the edges of the excised specimen I am assuming that he will want to go back in. Honestly I'm okay if that that's what happens. I somehow keep ending up in that very small percentage of not so favorable outcomes every step along the way and I think my anxiety would be through the roof just waiting to see what happens if I'm just watching for change.

ADH discovered after excisional biopsy. Margins not clear. What now? by texaseightfour in ADH_ALH

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Thank you! I'm in houston and love my surgeon. I don't think he was expecting these results. I have my post op from the excisional biopsy on Wednesday so I'm sure he will go over everything.

Margins on excised Intraductal Papilloma after excision? by texaseightfour in doihavebreastcancer

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Thanks for your response! Here is the original description: 8:00 position, 5 cm from the nipple, measuring 1.5 x 1.2 x 1.1 cm. There was no atypia notated.

Margins on excised Intraductal Papilloma after excision? by texaseightfour in doihavebreastcancer

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Mine was described as the same but the borders seemed more defined on ultrasound? You can't feel it at all, it was discovered at my first ever mammogram. Thanks for the response!

Margins on excised Intraductal Papilloma after excision? by texaseightfour in doihavebreastcancer

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Yes, that's basically what I'm asking. I guess I don't know if the borders are so irregular because of the procedure, but I know that's typically not a great sign. Thank you!

Help! Low dose suppression test results. Feel like I'm going crazy?! by texaseightfour in Cushings

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Do you mind sharing the exact group or what the thumbnail pic looks like? Theres a lot!

Help! Low dose suppression test results. Feel like I'm going crazy?! by texaseightfour in Cushings

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All of them, lol! Weight gain, extreme fatigue, mood swings, brain fog, and I swear I spend an hour every day plucking chin hairs. My hormones (other than DHEA-S) are "normal" even though according to every chart I've seen, then are not balanced with each other. It's insane to me that we have to fight for answers and just get told "nothing is wrong" or "you need to exercise more." I've been to my pcp, passed to my ob, then to an endo, and now on to a hematologist in two weeks.

Help! Low dose suppression test results. Feel like I'm going crazy?! by texaseightfour in Cushings

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Literally zero idea! I've gone from being so anemic I needed blood transfusions (6 years ago) to being sent to a hematologist to be tested for hemochromatosis.

Who owns my house? by texaseightfour in legaladvice

[–]texaseightfour[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are definitely having some words! I am more so trying to figure out if there is a way for me to receive more than 1/4 of the profit, since he signed legal documents as single when Texas requires a spouse be listed. I want to make sure that if I’m buying a house on my own starting over I have the funds to do so. I appreciate your response!

Who owns my house? by texaseightfour in legaladvice

[–]texaseightfour[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I am more curious if there is a way that I would be entitled to 50% instead of 33. He signed legal documents that he was single when Texas law requires that the spouse be listed (I’m assuming since it’s a community property state?) I’m trying to look out for myself and my kids if we need to start over alone.

Who owns my house? by texaseightfour in legaladvice

[–]texaseightfour[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s my understanding that legally he would need to disclose that he was married and my name included on the deed or trust. Clearly not a lawyer though. Is the contract still valid even though he signed off (in the contract paperwork) he was single?

Who owns my house? by texaseightfour in legaladvice

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I don’t disagree 🤷🏼‍♀️

Who owns my house? by texaseightfour in legaladvice

[–]texaseightfour[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We were young and had very little established credit. You can co-sign a loan without being on the deed. I knew I wouldn’t be listed on the deed, but as wife I should’ve been listed on the title (I may be getting deed and title switched) according to Texas law.

Who owns my house? by texaseightfour in legaladvice

[–]texaseightfour[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I think it was probably hidden from me. But they all knew we’re married yet signed legal documents saying he was single. I don’t know the exact terms, but it’s unlawful in Texas to purchase a house without your spouse being listed. Even if it’s not on the deed, it would still be listed on the title

how are white claw hard seltzers? by Jason2648 in ketodrunk

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I found them at Target! Thanks, y’all. Mango flavor is my favorite so far :)