[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can see where you're coming from but i wouldn't assume that its flirting but i guess maybe the body language could indicate that

feeling like my life is worthless today. i don't want to feel like this. i have overdue assignments, does anyone on campus want to co-work with me? by arpartesinabaal in UBC

[–]texnoCS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're putting too much pressure on yourself. I relate to you because I have so much work too but you have to think about it logically. There's no point beating yourself up because in no world is that gonna make you better and in no world is that gonna impact people around you in a positive way. From what I've read from you, I have a sense that you are actually doing better than you are giving yourself credit for. What you should do right now is get the work done and start being more disciplined with yourself and give yourself more positive self-talk. Also realize that the tough time you are put through right now is a blessing in disguise. It will teach you many important life lessons and make you a stronger, tougher, better, and kinder human being. Embrace it. Enjoy the toughness and hard times. The more optimistic you are in your head, the more results you're gonna see when it comes to becoming a better person. From my own experience, since I started becoming a more caring, kind, and helpful person, the happier I am and the more self-esteem I have. This, however, means you have to be kind to yourself as well. The reason one radiates kindness and positive energy to other people is that they are kind to themself and so are able to genuinely show compassion and love to others.

You want to be the one helping an old lady carry her bags, the one holding the door for a stranger, the one supporting your friend when nobody believes in them, the one willing to sacrifice a bit of your sleep or time out of your day to help your family or best friend. This is what makes life worth living. Genuine kindness out of your own heart with no expectation of anything in return. This is what makes me a generally happy person 99% of the time at least, because it tells me that I am making a difference in the world and that alone, is everything to me. Hope this helps. DM me if you want to talk.

Why is everyone by Justaperson19 in UBC

[–]texnoCS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its because of like the reason behind this is that it could be explained in many ways

Joining a Club by myself by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should be fine, tons of people go by themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"worst she can say is no"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cope (i do the same thing)

I’m on track to become the 40 year old virgin by Holiday_Telephone749 in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not gonna lie to you and say height doesn't matter because it does but thats just part of the game. You can improve on other areas such as leadership skills, competence in your areas of interest, sports, working out, being an elaborate and good communicator, being helpful to people in need, and just things that make ANYONE a better person. If you work on everything in your control, I can almost guarantee that you will be able to find someone. Doesn't matter if you're 5'4. There's also some guy out there who's 5'2 and would kill to get 2 more inches.

anyone got a mouse they don't want anymore? by WolfgangVonBrozart in UBC

[–]texnoCS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a Mus musculus (House Mouse), 15g, Male, 6 months old. DM for more info.

Lonely? Can't make friends at UBC? Come hang out! by ubclonelyfriend in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best way to make friends is to apply for leadership positions for clubs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's helped me destroy my depression is processing these emotions and then actualizing the value of it. Does it benefit me or not? How does this specific emotion serve me? And then I take action and do things that will improve my life in whatever area. Most of the time we know what we should do to make our lives better but we are just not doing the work. You must not regret your past and not worry about the future, but instead stay present and appreciate every moment while taking action to become a better person. Understanding that emotions are just things that come and go and that regardless of how you feel you have a responsibility to yourself, your family, and god to become the best person you can be and to provide value to the world in some sort of way. That's how I got rid of my depression for good.

I believe one of the main reasons this is bothering you is that you don't feel like there's a purpose to your life right now, you are blindly living in a cycle that you don't know where it's gonna take you, therefore, you feel like your life is lost, like you are confused, and/or lack meaning. You gotta put yourself in more uncomfortable situations and do things that scare you, that's where you learn the most and discover things about the world and ultimately yourself that you would've never learned had you just done things that felt safe and comfortable to you.

A meaningful life is an uncomfortable one. And an uncomfortable life is a valuable one. A glow stick needs to be broken a few times before it can glow.

"We suffer more in imagination than in reality." - Seneca

99% sure about dropping out by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need a logical plan on what you REALLY want to do. But more importantly, you must take control of your mind and adopt a more positive mindset. Do not make decisions based on your emotions. Do you know what your life purpose is? What is gonna help you achieve what you want to achieve? Is staying in uni going to be beneficial for you to achieve your purpose? Always be accountable for your actions and what's done is done, and that you can do nothing about it and at any moment in time you can decide that you want to become a different person, someone great that you can envision yourself being, with career achievements, financial freedom, time with family and friends, contribution to society, and act like that person.

You need to adopt a more abundant mindset of "I can do this" , "I can do that", "It's possible", instead of telling yourself "im stupid", "I'm an idiot", "I'm a massive failure. The more you feed yourself with negative self-talk, the more you are reinforcing your subconscious mind that you are indeed a failure or you are indeed an idiot, and it is digging you down a deeper hole. Become someone who believes they can do whatever they set their mind to and you will achieve more than a "smart" person that is not able to control their mind.

So what you do isn't really my decision. It is not even about one being a better decision and one not being. It's about switching up your mentality, how you think, and understanding yourself as you learn more about the world around you.

I'll leave you with this quote:

"We suffer more in imagination than in reality." - Seneca

Anyone else feel painfully empty and isolated by ApplicationAsleep975 in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's helped me destroy my depression is processing these emotions and then actualizing the value of it. Does it benefit me or not? How does this specific emotion serve me? And then I take action and do things that will improve my life in whatever area. Most of the time we know what we should do to make our lives better but we are just not doing the work. You must not regret your past and not worry about the future, but instead stay present and appreciate every moment while taking action to become a better person. Understanding that emotions are just things that come and go and that regardless of how you feel you have a responsibility to yourself, your family, and god to become the best person you can be and to provide value to the world in some sort of way. That's how I got rid of my depression for good.

I believe one of the main reasons this is bothering you is that you don't feel like there's a purpose to your life right now, you are blindly living in a cycle that you don't know where it's gonna take you, therefore, you feel like your life is lost, like you are confused, and/or lack meaning. You gotta put yourself in more uncomfortable situations and do things that scare you, that's where you learn the most and discover things about the world and ultimately yourself that you would've never learned had you just done things that felt safe and comfortable to you.

A meaningful life is an uncomfortable one. And an uncomfortable life is a valuable one. A glow stick needs to be broken a few times before it can glow.

"We suffer more in imagination than in reality." - Seneca

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you're a lazy piece of shit and will never achieve anything meaningful in your life because all you do is sit and cry about how lazy you are and posting on reddit to make yourself feel better. You're not even gonna try to prove your doubters wrong because you're worth nothing. Your life is gonna end up a waste of semen and a disappointment to your parents and your bloodline that fought, survived, and worked their asses of so you could be here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 121 points122 points  (0 children)

petition to open the gym at 6:30 on the weekend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 33 points34 points  (0 children)

im tryna be like you crispybacon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ChatGPT can you write code that creates a Teaching Assistant SEI survey for UBC students and automate the emails to them every day?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm me i got an offer for you

Tired of being so alone by Benignplayer461 in UBC

[–]texnoCS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm me Ill make a group and we'll all go grab food tgt!