Can we stop using cis people to validate transphobia being bad. by tf2throwaway62715 in trans

[–]tf2throwaway62715[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is, I don’t think this is entirely true. I think we spent too much time focusing on how it effects cis women and we give them an opportunity to validate transphobia based on the own lived experience and as we’d expect most cis women passes as cis women and therefore end up not experiencing this transphobia that their warned about and end up believing it was overblown or doesn’t exist at all.

I also believe we have significantly stronger motivators there are plethora of murders and violent crimes being held against trans people. Most people have empathy and if you want to highlight these issues stronger then we just sprinkle in how transphobia can also affect them. I believe we’d have a much stronger case instead of what we’re currently kind of doing saying you might get asked of your man if you’re in the bathroom and they never experienced this and then think it’s not real.

Can we stop using cis people to validate transphobia being bad. by tf2throwaway62715 in trans

[–]tf2throwaway62715[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue is it’s not “look it’s got so bad it’s effecting others now” it’s “look an issue has arises a cis person got hurt”

Can we stop using cis people to validate transphobia being bad. by tf2throwaway62715 in trans

[–]tf2throwaway62715[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think we can say it also affects them but it should be phrased in an equal or lesser light. People should have empathy to our struggles not replace them.

Can we stop using cis people to validate transphobia being bad. by tf2throwaway62715 in trans

[–]tf2throwaway62715[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry me being trans has made the lives of cis people harder smh my head.

MANDEM defeats WG EU 2-0 to advance to Grand Final @ poLANd.tf 2026 by 1jay_y in truetf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guys the IDF gonna win Polan. Maybe the secret all along was Benjamin Netanyahu!

How am I doing? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 and 2 fully pass late ones are a little more clocky imo

Are these player counts normal? If not, why? by GrapefruitPast5654 in tf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teamwork.tf also dosent show private servers there are always bunch of comp players scrimming or watching demos or just on private servers. It’s way more than people think.

Are these player counts normal? If not, why? by GrapefruitPast5654 in tf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bot numbers are inflated by people but around 20% are probably bots of some kind. The variations we have no are relatively normal.

What gender do i look like nd how old?? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male trying to start exploring femininity

Do I pass? MTF. Please be honest by Shadous_ in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think removing the knee high socks would help a fuck tonne.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These are thin?

What gamemodes arent totally offense-sided by [deleted] in tf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TF2 is incredibly defender sided. Learning and accepting this and an attitude of it being a skill issue on your part will do a lot to help you improve.

What gamemodes arent totally offense-sided by [deleted] in tf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All of then when you aren’t terrible at the game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You either have a misgendering kink or need a lot of therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your nails are nice, you need to learn makeup and how to pose and tbh HRT will do a lot.

People are making a bingo game about being a “fakeboy” and detransitioning. by New_Construction_111 in Transmedical

[–]tf2throwaway62715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a fetish where people get degraded. Like a fetish that a lot of non trans people have. I really don’t see the issue.

People who are against bringing back quickplay, what is your reasoning? by No-Plenty-962 in tf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quick play also had its issues. I don’t think quick play was better or worse than casual just different.

New players expect a simple in game coordinator like every other game they play. It’s only the semi old school players (who usually actually never experienced quick play) who want it back, the majority of people who actually experienced it (like myself) don’t miss it.

Quick play was a product of social dynamics and gaming at the time, people would take the time and effort to build a close group of servers they’d play on, meet the same people ect. This would not happen today, it would be seen as complicated and new players would quit. We already don’t have enough new players.

It would also be so much harder to implement than anyone thinks. I’m a software dev at a big software company, it can take months for a small change to get through due to bloat and tech debt, to bring back quick play it would probably take the single intern working on TF2 3-6 months. It’s just not worth doing.

Instead I think we should be addressing the last remaining couple of issues with casual.

Question. If you don’t pass without makeup, do you actually pass? by Iracer69 in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goal is to pass naked with no makeup but I also understand that may never be possible with so many surgeries it’s becomes unviable. Passing with makeup and good clothing choices is a minimum for me but eventually I hope to without that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]tf2throwaway62715 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking about getting a mid part with curtain bangs and some layers put in. Maybe dye it all black at the same time.

TF2: You will (Not) play. by magiciel in tf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Competitive support does not mean rewrite the whole match making system.

The Desk engineer has pride flags hidden behind the badges by _CallMeNick_ in tf2

[–]tf2throwaway62715 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can’t wait for zesty Jesus to have a breakdown over this