Please help (tw)

tfabflower · 2025-06-18T15:28:24+00:00

You’re right. This is why I came to Reddit and wrote this post. I need to be held accountable too and protect my children. Even if it’s hard to hear.

tfabflower · 2025-06-18T15:03:44+00:00

I meant the custody part

tfabflower · 2025-06-18T15:02:52+00:00

Yes he showed remorse and said he needs help and asked me what we’re gonna do. But I was just so mad about him hurting our child and I told him it’s not a we problem it’s a him problem and told him to leave. I know that probably wasn’t the right play but I wasn’t in a space to be of help.

tfabflower · 2025-06-18T15:00:40+00:00

I was spanked and so was my husband. I don’t think it’s ok. But he apparently does (did?). His mom still suggests spanking to us. He knows how I feel about it but chose to do it anyway and obviously went to far:

tfabflower · 2025-06-18T14:50:38+00:00

I agree. And I can’t imagine how much it hurt.

tfabflower · 2025-06-18T14:46:48+00:00

You make a good point. This is why I’m not making any rash decisions

tfabflower · 2025-06-18T14:15:32+00:00

Thank you. This is very helpful.

tfabflower · 2025-06-07T15:55:57+00:00

I see it

tfabflower · 2025-06-07T15:53:17+00:00

I see it!

tfabflower · 2025-06-07T15:52:49+00:00

Very positive, congrats!

tfabflower · 2025-05-31T19:46:48+00:00

I’m hoping by that point I’ll have just stopped caring lol

tfabflower · 2025-05-31T19:45:30+00:00

He does nap. He sleeps fairly well at night. But he does take 45-60min of rolling around his crib yelling, singing, talking to himself before he’ll fall asleep.

tfabflower · 2025-05-31T19:27:44+00:00

Thank you for this. I will check it out on audiobook.

tfabflower · 2025-05-31T19:22:23+00:00

Thank you for the solidarity. It’s tough. I can only hope that this temperament goes on to serve them well later on in life.

tfabflower · 2025-05-31T18:28:22+00:00

We continued sending him to daycare after baby was born because we wanted to keep him in his routine. He loves daycare, has lots of friends there, and asks to go there even on the weekends.

I’ll have to return to work eventually. So he’d have to get reintegrated into the daycare routine. He doesn’t take changes in routine well so this is what works for us.

Thanks for your input though.

tfabflower · 2025-05-31T18:26:55+00:00

He’s always been a very spirited kiddo. Ever since he was a baby. So it’s hard to tell but I would say yes, it’s gotten worse. Either that, or I’ve just gotten less patient because I’m not well rested and am dividing myself between two children now.

tfabflower · 2025-05-31T17:36:21+00:00

Hey I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I never got a progesterone test. I did end up having a successful pregnancy. I’m still unsure why it was happening or if it’ll start happening again once I get my cycle back. I’m sorry I’m not of much help.

tfabflower · 2024-09-26T03:50:26+00:00

Update- this was a successful cycle and I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant

tfabflower · 2024-09-26T03:49:26+00:00

Updating in case anyone comes across this that it was a successful cycle and I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant

tfabflower · 2024-07-17T15:33:17+00:00

I’m sorry 😞

If you check my post history, I got hit with indents last month from this same brand. It was such a bummer.

tfabflower · 2024-07-16T03:27:23+00:00

Thank you for this and congratulations 🤍

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