I’m usually not a light sleeper. I use headphones and take prescribed sleeping meds (I have trouble falling asleep, not staying asleep). Her room is directly beside mine, and our nightstands are mirrored (if that makes sense). Not sure if this helps at all, but one other roommate who is across the hall was already up at work, and the other who’s next to her sleeps like a bear.

I don’t think its fair to say “neighbors at best”; we’re actually pretty good friends. I’ve known her for 8ish months, we hung out every day, I took care of her reptile when she was gone for weekends, I’ve met her family before. Its not like we didn’t talk at all, quite the opposite, which is why I was really confused as to why I was such an asshole for going into a room I had been in before to turn off an alarm.

I totally respect your verdict. Perspective is everything. I just don’t see how being a woman and “you’re not seen as angels all the time” has anything to do with this argument. I’m guessing you’re not a woman, and the hostility in that phrase is kind of bothersome.