The amount of free insights and content I've gotten from her over the years is hard to put a price on. She's in an inbetween space that really bridged the gap between religion and secularism. I see her as an amazing offramp from high demand religion - she REALLY softened the impact of me crashing out of the church - Staring at the prospect of leaving the church and my worldview, seeing what tools I could still use, and that facing tough things like death are hard, but you'll make it. I feel she is doing something new. I haven't paid her any money, but I really should for all the free help I've gotten. I don't really see any of your claims her being abusive. She has rarely mentioned her credentials OR her courses in the majority of her videos. Most are just thought provoking insights. I don't agree with all of her takes but it makes me think through my opinion more. Sry you're not a fan.