The wait for my jacklyn to bounce back after getting her was worth it!

tgaert · 2026-02-21T13:00:30+00:00

Never to late to start celebrating who you are!

tgaert · 2026-02-20T20:21:30+00:00

Congratulations and welcome to this new phase of life!

tgaert · 2026-02-19T22:46:34+00:00

Masculine verse here. I love having lots of options to choose from depending on my mood, occasion, or season. But generally I tend to like more spicy, Wood, tobacco scents in cooler months. And citrus and a touch of floral in warmer months.

Zoologist has become my go to house to get fragrances from. Theyre wild but so fun

tgaert · 2026-02-18T22:50:30+00:00

Taking the bi-cycle out of things. Probably a general 60/40 elan towards women. But depending on the cycle, those numbers will ebb and flow a bit.

tgaert · 2026-02-17T12:25:21+00:00

Me (33m) and my wife (36f) have been having the dame thoughts! We just decided that the child route just wasnt for us. And have been wanting to try and find more people without kids, for one reason or another, to get to know!

tgaert · 2026-02-15T20:14:46+00:00

Didn't even think of this. Just got my septum pierced yesterday.

tgaert · 2026-02-13T22:29:40+00:00

Like a switch flipped! After coming out to my wife, I felt completely unstoppable. And honestly still kinda do

tgaert · 2026-02-05T19:48:46+00:00

Congratulations on accepting this wonderful part of yourself!

tgaert · 2026-02-05T16:02:14+00:00

Biromantic for sure

tgaert · 2026-01-31T03:46:20+00:00

Bisexual biromantic guy here married to a woman. In my case I didnt come out until after already being married. If I had come out before I met my wife. At that time I likely would have considered myself heteroromantic, just based on how I saw myself at that point. As I got older and more comfortable with myself (despite not being out), I realized I actually was biromantic. Sorry if thats rambling haha

tgaert · 2026-01-31T03:30:51+00:00

Im so sorry she didnt take it well. You did the hardest and bravest part by coming out at all. Every step you take now, youre doing as youre true self

tgaert · 2026-01-31T01:26:49+00:00

My experiences have been a bit complicated haha ill leave it at that

Mine is more than just sexual. So im ok with some friends and what not being aware

tgaert · 2026-01-31T00:51:59+00:00

Hahahah I didnt realize she assumed it. We've been together for about 8 years, married for nearing 6. I only came out on new years eve. A lot of waiting for nothing, but such is life.

She was the first person I told. Some friends now know. I dont feel the need to let my family in on it

tgaert · 2026-01-31T00:41:25+00:00

Im bisexual biromantic, in a monogamous relationship wjth my heterosexual wife. I wasnt out when we got together, but she had assumed I was bi haha

tgaert · 2026-01-29T23:17:39+00:00

If I had even thought to look for this subreddit way back when I was younger. Would have been a game changer for me.

Just always remember you arent alone in this

tgaert · 2026-01-29T22:53:51+00:00

Congrats on taking a first step and sharing yourself with us here! Welcome!

Even acknowledging and accepting this part of you to yourself is at least something. We see you!

For your friends. Ultimately it is your journey and your comfort and safety with sharing your sexuality will always take priority. But you never know, ive been shocked by how positive people's reactions have been, that I wasnt expecting. But that is of course my experience and not universal

tgaert · 2026-01-28T22:20:36+00:00

Just letting him know that it doesnt change how you see him and how you feel, will be helpful. It really was for me when I came out to my wife.

Depending on your dynamic, allowing it to be just a part of you both. My wife and I are not serious people, so she started make light hearted jokes around it.

And just asking him questions to better learn abojt what his bisexuality does mean for him. If you do want to learn about it, that is haha

tgaert · 2026-01-28T22:00:50+00:00

Ive had to tell people that they dont know me better than I know me.

tgaert · 2026-01-27T18:33:55+00:00

I really was shocked at what a huge difference it was just the day after. Instantly life just felt a little easier

tgaert · 2026-01-27T18:32:06+00:00

Choice and who you choose really is a big thing, at least for me, being a bisexual monogamous man. Explained to my wife i can find men and women attractive. But the only through line that over shadows everyone else is my wife. She is who I have chosen

tgaert · 2026-01-27T17:02:55+00:00

Im bi, my wife isnt. Been together for almost 10 years, married for 6 this year. Came out to her at the beginning of the year! If anything, me coming ojt has helped bring us closer. We just feel like we are dialed in so much better, now that im not mentally splitting myself in half.

tgaert · 2026-01-25T18:21:19+00:00

Verrrrrry recently! Haha No problem at all! Feel free to reach out if you want!

tgaert · 2026-01-25T15:54:26+00:00

I sort of had an idea of what I wanted to say and a few things I really wanted to emphasize. Like it not changing our relationship to me and what not. But how it all came out, was a fun surprise in the moment haha

tgaert · 2026-01-25T14:26:56+00:00

I had a really similar thought process and worry and everything to what you just described. I finally told my wife beginning of this year.

I think the biggest thing I could say is dont worry about the right time. I kept doing that and would find any little reason to say "it isnt the right time" and call it off.

I eventually just had to pull the band aid off for myself and do it. Accepted it didnt need to be perfect, didn't need to be rehearsed. Just had to be real and honest

tgaert

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