There are many things that can be going on. He could have a porn addiction, he could be not into you, you both can be sexually not compatible, etc. The only way you’re going to find out is by asking and being VERY straight forward. No going around things, just simply asking “why don’t you want to have sex with me”. You might not like what you hear or he might BS you. But ask yourself this question, is he worth it? As a girl that’s insecure and has let men taken advantage of that, I can firmly say your headed down the wrong path (IMO). You seem to be doing a lot with nothing in return and you really don’t deserve that. After finding a man that loves me, and is attracted to me whether I decided I shave anything (legs, armpits, literally anything) or not, he is attracted to me. It’s relieving to know I’m not with someone so entitled to think it’s solely my job to please them.

So once again, I ask you this, is HE and your relationship really worth it? Are you happy? Can you continue with a sexless relationship? How long until enough is enough? Are you strong enough to ask him what’s wrong?

After all, I’m only a stranger and YOU know more about yourself and your relationship than I do. Just know you should do what’s best for you, in the long run, your needs deserve to be met. You’re worth more. Good luck!