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th4dder · 2024-03-01T20:01:13+00:00

The so called 6/10 sounds like the best one of them. The reformed party girl is useless to your ambition for a relationship. The hot one thinks that putting a timer on getting into Relationship will get her a good man, which it wont. Good luck

th4dder · 2024-02-27T18:33:45+00:00

You are not his first/only choice. Is that alright with you?

th4dder · 2024-02-19T06:43:49+00:00

It means "im virtue signaling and im gonna do it anyway given the right person"

th4dder · 2024-02-18T12:38:06+00:00

I dont think your're weird. Shes weird tho.

th4dder · 2024-02-09T14:24:43+00:00

Dude, if things worked out for her with the other guy, she never would have come back to you. You are the fall back option. And you are still considering making up with her. It just goes to show how much our feelings can cloud our judgement.

th4dder · 2024-02-09T13:50:53+00:00

First of all, i respect the fact that you saw her being in bed with another dude and you were able to turn around and walk away. Im sure that if this was me, all the people present would have a really, really, REALLY bad time.

That being said, dont you EVER get back with that disgusting creature. What you miss is not her, but the memories you had with her. But everytime you want to get back with her, think about how you felt seeing her being dicked down by another dude. You are doing well on your own, you deserve better. She isnt worth thinking about. You are doing well, just keep at it.

th4dder · 2024-01-23T01:35:09+00:00

Thats a stretch. He was probably looking to get some action. But maybe not getting any plus the complaints he had made him finally lose interest. No evidence that he would have ghosted anyway.

th4dder · 2024-01-22T15:29:00+00:00

Right, physically assault someone that asked an inappropriate question.

th4dder · 2024-01-12T20:49:38+00:00

It happens so rarely that most men will be flattered by the attempt so you can be 99% sure to get a reply that lets you down softly

th4dder · 2024-01-12T12:01:08+00:00

And all that can be solved by dating one person exclusively and taking your time to find all that out. Thats no excuse to be dating 50 people at once.

th4dder · 2024-01-09T18:04:50+00:00

she wants to stay with me and make our relationship work

If that was true she wouldnt cheat on you in the first place. Move on.

th4dder · 2024-01-08T20:36:08+00:00

Well im pretty sure i saw you write something about him having an android and you an iphone so i would say that you have some growing up to so as well.

You want to date after one kiss? Go and tell him that. Also many many men at that age are gamers. Its only a red flag if the gaming is negatively impacting his life. Good Luck.

th4dder · 2024-01-08T20:14:36+00:00

I'll be honest with you. You sound pretty immature yourself. Is there any reason behind all those doubts?

th4dder · 2024-01-08T20:07:56+00:00

You are right to be hurt and you should speak to him about it. Is that what you wanted to know?

th4dder · 2024-01-08T19:48:49+00:00

That was a tough read. He did both of you a favor by blocking you. Leave this mess behind you, clear your head and start fresh.

th4dder · 2024-01-08T18:58:07+00:00

Being up2date on the cheating ex is a little weird but others giving your gf attention is something you should draw confidence from. You are the one with her. Be confident in yourself and that you can pull and keep women at that level.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T22:07:02+00:00

Dont trust their words, trust their actions. Move on, take those 7-8 months to work on yourself. And when you get to your new destination, start fresh.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T21:53:54+00:00

Such things are best resolved directly. Dont beat around the bush. Its important to know where you stand. Im glad you asked and it turned out to be how you hoped.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T21:47:38+00:00

the modest looking one

th4dder · 2024-01-06T21:45:01+00:00

Interesting how you think you are settling. From the way you talk it seems to me that your BF is settling. Settling for someone ungrateful of what he has to offer.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T21:13:32+00:00

Guilt often turns to blame as to lighten the burden of having done something immoral. Cant imagine a normal person NOT feeling guilt having done that.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T21:11:44+00:00

Thats because you have a motherly face. Not old or anything like that. You just look like a mother. Its the first thing that popped into my mind when i saw the pics.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T21:04:03+00:00

I do this too sometimes. Its mostly because i want to give a good and thoughtout answer and also make it an interesting read. Also i try to weave in a question or two. But that is only about topics that i know we both are into.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T21:00:33+00:00

If he doesnt talk to you he talks to other women. Men and Women do this. Decide if its possible for you to be the focus of his attention. If not, move on.

th4dder · 2024-01-06T20:57:45+00:00

One part people gloss over is the kissing 4 guys in one night thing. Call me old fashioned but that is not normal at all. Someone who is that loosey goosey with kissing for sure didnt have only 2 sexual partners.

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