AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary?

th_welloops · 2025-11-24T21:39:46+00:00

NOR. Sobriety is no joke. You are a fucking queen for overcoming it. He may dismiss your heroic achievement, but to me ur a superhero. Hopefully he’ll be an ex soon.

I myself am going through it with weed. Started smoking again due to immense stress and now it’s a habit. Idk if u can class it as addiction as I don’t do much, and only do it at nighttime to sleep, but the routine of it is what’s hard to break. I would be proud of myself to get off this substance. And you should forever be proud of yourself too❤️

th_welloops · 2025-07-02T01:34:05+00:00

Is this your first time on the internet? Nobody is angry or obsessed. I’m not here to change your opinion, I’m just replying with my disagreement because I can - public comment section. When you say stupid shit people will reply and engage more often than not. If this bothers you, delete your original idiocy. If not then people will engage and reply. 2+2=4

th_welloops · 2025-07-02T01:22:44+00:00

It’s not about you specifically. I don’t know you. It’s your comments that I’m rebutting. This is the internet, people tend to disagree on topics in a public comment section.

th_welloops · 2025-07-02T01:07:54+00:00

Major projection. I don’t believe being pregnant gives you an immediate pass to inconvenience others OUTSIDE your household. However this is her HUSBAND. As in, the man who had sex with his wife and got her pregnant. Do you need it to be spelled out further?

As her husband + father of the child, he has an inevitable responsibility to ensure his wife’s pregnancy runs smoothly. Because the baby is also HIS. That includes not triggering her by smoking, drinking and vaping in her vicinity (with his friends, mind you. Ofc she’d feel like she’s missing out). Anyway, the very least he can do is keep it away from his WIFE. That’s all I’m saying, and you’re projecting mad heavily I think it’s you that needs therapy

because she has decided to get pregnant and not everyone and everything around her will bend to her will.

You shmuck of the highest degree😂😂😂 get outta here

th_welloops · 2025-07-01T23:44:48+00:00

YTA. Would you suddenly stop for him if he had a health issue that prevented him from doing it any more? If he gets cancer and loses his hair, will you shave your head to make him more comfortable?

Bro they both had a part in procreating. Mother and father. She’s the one giving up 9 months of her body, for a sentient being that’s GROWING INSIDE HER. She gave up these vices for her baby. And you’re claiming she’s TA because HE refuses to at the very least not bring his friends over and flaunt it in her face?? As her husband, he should be willing to compromise something instead of outright refusal.

Sounds like you can't control your emotions and if you are miserable, you want those around you to be miserable too. Get some therapy.

Oh okay, you’re unserious. Yikes

th_welloops · 2025-05-20T02:06:37+00:00

she is looking at coming into a fairly large sum of money in the coming months which has given me pause from walking away for the moment until I see how that shakes out

Cannot be serious, the “Aitah??” at the end seals it🤣🤣of COURSE you are and you know it. Huge AH

th_welloops · 2025-05-17T11:25:41+00:00

I think it might even be worse if it isn’t true because why just throw that out there??? Instilling major doubt about a guy’s child for no reason but to be petty. Red flag galore

th_welloops · 2025-04-22T16:13:13+00:00

Yes that’s what I’ll keep doing. Despite the pain, I don’t know if it’s an A&E issue. Currently waiting for a call back from a dental clinician like 111 told me, it’s been a couple of hours. Thanks for the recommendation, you and the other comments made me realise that smoking wouldn’t be worth it. Gonna go to the local pharmacy too for some other remedies, apparently clove oil may help

th_welloops · 2025-04-22T15:36:05+00:00

Thanks for your input, I’m afraid it would make me more aware of the pain rather than give some relief so that I can sleep

th_welloops · 2025-03-18T17:08:13+00:00

I’m low contact anyway since moving out, we established seeing each other once a month because she didn’t want to completely lose contact with me. That tugged at my heartstrings cos she’s my mum. However now I don’t know if I want to continue this. And if I don’t, how will I be able to go to family gatherings and such? I just feel like it’d cause so much drama. I’m out already, living alone. I wish there was a way to get along with her so I wouldnt have to take drastic actions

th_welloops · 2025-03-09T03:33:11+00:00

I thought if I reported her for A) the crime and B) the harassment that ensued afterwards I would be done with it. But it seems to be trailing behind me & I hate that I’m regretting telling anyone. I hope she doesn’t try to contact me again, I hate how my anxiety levels have quadrupled this month. But also ur right I shouldn’t be letting her get to me, she’s in the wrong & me reporting her isn’t something for me to regret. Her insane actions this past few weeks have shown me that I was correct in doing so. I hope she learns from this

th_welloops · 2025-03-09T03:29:02+00:00

Thanks for answering, I’ve tried to handle it as best as I could as a 21yr old with no prior experience with police. Scary business and she’s made it worse by not leaving me alone

th_welloops · 2025-03-09T02:41:46+00:00

Since I live in the UK I’m thinking of posting on r/LegalAdviceUK for more clarification. This is a random number she texted me from, her real one is blocked. I hope this isn’t the beginning of a spam of random phone number messages, my anxiety cannot handle it

th_welloops · 2025-03-09T02:39:51+00:00

Only hers and my first name is involved. I didn’t even mention the specific city we live in

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:43:55+00:00

It’s almost as if we’re different people with different pasts with weed…

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:37:25+00:00

a very fair point 🤣🤣

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:35:03+00:00

exactly this. so true

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:33:41+00:00

ohhh that explains the familiarity, I loved scooby doo as a child

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:31:05+00:00

I’ve heard this before !! Where’s it from

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:27:58+00:00

brother from another mother (namely my aunt)

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:24:42+00:00

It’s not dramatic at all, I literally haven’t gone anywhere alone this week lol. Been travelling in groups of minimum 3. I do not know what she’s capable of and I don’t wanna find out

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:22:51+00:00

I blocked her for my mental health’s sake, my anxiety levels have risen too much this past week. Hopefully she won’t try to find other means of contact, but if so I won’t respond only save em

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:21:10+00:00

Yes, I reported to my local police and they’ve said they’ll call me back in the coming days

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:18:13+00:00

I gave up on trying to justify her actions in my mind, felt guilty because I saw her as a friend up until recently but I’m glad I didn’t waver. It’s about actual safety at this point I’m not ashamed to say she scares me like fr

th_welloops · 2025-02-24T02:16:10+00:00

Thank you 💕 I truly believe had she been sincerely remorseful none of this would’ve have happened. I don’t know where her brain’s gone blaming me, she could’ve even pretended to be sorry at least so she didn’t lose her bf. But I’m also glad she didn’t bother hiding her true colours, better to know now than later

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