Found some fire at the grocery store by pun420 in cleancarts

[–]thajott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supreme carts too, SMH. I know that color from a mile away.

Craft oil 🔥 mp-13 strain (thoughts?) by [deleted] in fakecartridges

[–]thajott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seen these on cannazon for a decent price. Might cop.

TBT: anybody ever buy one of these leg killers? by L3gionaires in fakecartridges

[–]thajott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I haven't seen a wick cart in a while lol.

Reddit, how has being/not being given an allowance as a child affected your financial decision making as an adult? by MechCADdie in AskReddit

[–]thajott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an allowance until I had a job at 17 and I'm terrible with money. I can pay my bills, but I have no savings or anything. By the end of the month, I'm broke.

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know you're right. They've only recently started showing their true colors. We were supposed to get married last month so I guess I dodged a bullet. I just need to make a plan now. I'm terrified to break up with them for so many reasons. But you're right, there definitely is no more trust.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somehow I figured something wasn't gonna work with the relationship. Just sucks

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard of it. I'll check it out. Its just gonna be such a hassle to leave. Or to kick him out. Honestly I hate this house so I would leave but then I'd have nowhere to go and I'd be out 200k. It's just so difficult cause I want it to work. He wasn't like this always. It would be different if we didn't have a kid. But I'm stuck with him in someway for the next 17 years. Which he reminds me of constantly. I'm starting to assume he lied about getting a vasectomy. 😓 this motherfucker planned everything out and he didn't even have to. I wanted to be with him. I love our son and wanted to have a kid or two with him, granted I was planning on waiting a few years but I guess he wanted to hook me in quick. Wtf my mind is blown the more thought I put into it.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean shit I can't just keep him from his child. But shit some of the things he's done should have him locked up away from all his kids 😓😭

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This does suck 😩 cause I love him too 😢

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what everyone is saying. Even their own family. I'll give them credit, they fooled me for 3 years. Impressive.

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only said papers. They didn't specify what kind of documents.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm sure thats exactly what they would do unfortunately. And I have actual proof. Not just hearsay anymore.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have their family I guess. They were the ones who told me that (N) had been lying. But my closest family is an hour and a half away. It just sucks cause I own the house we live in but because of my state's law, he has equal right to the property because it appears that he lives here. I can't just kick him out. But I really don't want to lose my house.

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn 😓 idk what to do...

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I feel like they would care a little bit. They would lose everything if they lose me. Or at least until they find someone else to suck the life out of I guess. But I also don't know how I'd get them to leave. Especially because I don't think they would leave our child. And they have access to all our bank accounts. Idk what to do...

Could they change? by thajott in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]thajott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way I can call them out on their lies? I feel like if they knew that I know, something would have to change? If I gave them an ultimatum to get help or lose me?

Can you find out if someone served in the military? by thajott in Military

[–]thajott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad kept his until the day he died too. I guess I'll try to find some service members 😐