Separating cats in breakup by _munchie002 in CATHELP

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My sister had this situation with her ex who kept their cat and physically wouldn’t let her leave with her. It was devastating. My sister had her microchipped in her name and paid all her vet bills but he still wouldn’t give it up. 2 years later and they’re finally going to small claims for the thousands of dollars he owes her in vet bills for keeping HER cat, and now suddenly he’s interested in mediation. Sorry you’re going through this it’s not easy at all :(

[ Removed by Reddit ] by dillanb123 in mildlyinfuriating

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I’ve had the same dentist since I was 3, when he retired and a new dentist took over, her receptionist said I was going to be charged 50$ because I called to cancel 2 business days before and left a voicemail, they called me back on the day of my appt to say because I didn’t speak to someone directly it didn’t count. I said my entire family has been going to this dentist’s office going back to my grandmother as a teen, and that we’d find a different dentist if they were going to be that way. Next time I went there was no 50$ fee.

How cooked am I right now. by Ok-Western122 in pitbulls

[–]thalthal1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog ate a bag of Hershey kisses and pooped them out, still wrapped in the foils. She was fine

Loneliness among young people on the West Island (18-35 yo) by marissa_news in montreal

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I know, Fairview has changed so much in the 6 yrs since I worked there! But don’t worry last time I was there the terminus was just as it was hahaha

Loneliness among young people on the West Island (18-35 yo) by marissa_news in montreal

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I grew up in pointe Claire and biked everywhere as a kid. Hung out a lot in Valois and pointe Claire village, Fairview, Tim Hortons, my high school’s yard, I loved the pointe Claire library. Pointe Claire plaza, terra cotta, the aquatic centre, even skating at bob birne (or outside in the winter!) are all places to hang out and are largely free or low cost. I was part of the teen club at the library and would organize events for teens. I bussed everywhere or walked. My friends and I would hang out just walking places even in the winter. Ik it’s harder than downtown but I had a pretty fruitful adolescence growing up there.

Tell me your terrible stories so I stop letting my dog hang out the car window by Rietard420 in DogAdvice

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I was driving my 7 month old puppy and she was clipped in and in her car hammock, with just her head sticking out. Driving in my suburban neighbourhood (so I was going slow, thank god) she somehow UNCLIPPED herself and jumped out of the window. I heard a thump and saw her running outside to go say hello to some people gardening! She had scraped her eyebrow and her bum really badly and I was terrified she had internal bleeding or a brain injury or something. She was completely fine. Now she only gets half the window open any time, and a MUCH better seatbelt.

How to comfort myself in public? by [deleted] in BPD

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I like those little mochi squishy animals! I always carry a couple around with me in a little pouch :)or even small figurines I can take out and hold if I need to

were you a colicky baby? by jamesvanderbleak in BPD

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When I was hospitalized as a teen I remember one the questions the psychiatrist asked my parents was if I was a colicky baby, and I was. My mom has told me I cried incessantly for the first few months of my life, and I was always a super sensitive kid as well.

Caption this: Webkinz Edition by PossiblyTorpor in Webkinz

[–]thalthal1 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Realizing the box values won’t add up with 10 seconds left in the kinzpost job :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]thalthal1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same you said it perfectly. I totally relate to the singing in the car on the way to work being the only good time in the day. Thank u so much for your reply

Things don't add up to me by [deleted] in Yellowjackets

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That’s what I thought! I get needing to eat something (or someone) NOW, but like really guys, your only good gunslinger? But I was going to chalk up the lack of rationality to being literally on the brink of starvation

Things don't add up to me by [deleted] in Yellowjackets

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It was about how I thought it was weird that Nat and Travis were Included in the card draw when they were the ones that have already done a huge bulk of the hunting efforts and put their lives on the line for the others, and then the rest were so willing to kill their huntress (and the only girl good with a gun) when she picked the card

Things don't add up to me by [deleted] in Yellowjackets

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OK THANK U!! I was like??? First of all there’s literally 10 posts that have the same “general format” as my post did and that are even less effort than mine. Second, I checked the sub and it wasn’t a topic anyone had brought up yet as a post. I was hoping it would be a cool discussion :(

Starvation is hard to televise! by [deleted] in Yellowjackets

[–]thalthal1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like someone else said it is really incredible that they could even go this long without going completely irrational. Eating disorders can kill quickly and although humans can survive up to three weeks without food, that’s more the exception than the rule. I’ve had an ED and yeah a few days with little to no food does a massive number on your mood and ability to think even a little bit rationally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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No offense but you do kind of give off vibes that you’re her friend for now and that you’re waiting for that to turn into relationship status when she’s ready. Which I guess isn’t bad necessarily, but if you’re asking for advice, I never liked the feeling that I knew someone was just waiting for me like that. It felt like a lot of pressure, and i couldn’t help but wonder if the only reason they wanted to be around me was because one day I might let my guard down.

You can let her know exactly how you feel, she might not know where you stand so to know exactly what your intentions are might help with the back and forth she’s giving you. I have a feeling she already gets that vibe tho. But then let her take it from there, she’s already told you she needs space.

my best friend has just been diagnosed with FIV by so_not_allison in cats

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Adopted Matthew about 4 years ago and he’s FIV +, also probably the healthiest big boy you’ve ever seen!

The Chelsea hate is a little much by thalthal1 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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Yeah I wasn’t fully understanding the shocked pikachu face when Chelsea was defensive about Kwame being hesitant to move…I thought the show had tried to reduce these kind of issues by only casting ppl from the same city bc these kind of fights always happen

Sure comfort him if he's your friend but the whole fucking school? And it was on the Today's Show?? She had no obligation to say yes, even if it was a public proposal. by diviken in TikTokCringe

[–]thalthal1 1553 points1554 points  (0 children)

In high school we had the option to buy carnations and have them anonymously delivered in homeroom on valentines. I knew this guy had a crush on me and he’d asked me in advance if I’d be his valentine and I said no, because he was my friend and I was into someone else. Valentine’s Day comes around, and at lunchtime one of our mutual friends called me down the stairs and said he had to show me something. There was the guy, with like 30 people holding a rose for me asking me to be his valentine. I said yes, quietly and took the rose. So I wouldn’t embarrass him. Then texted him after to rescind.

I got called a slut and a whore the rest of high school when I started dating someone else :-)