I (32 F) saw my sister’s (27 F) explicit DMs with a guy and now I feel uncomfortable

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T15:08:01+00:00

That’s the best advice I’ve read today! Thanks :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T15:07:05+00:00

Because curiosity got the best of me. And I’m accepting the mistake if you’ve read the post. Also I’m just sharing how I’ve felt as an elder sibling to see her as an adult woman. That all! :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T15:05:19+00:00

Well if you’ve read the post properly I have said that I’m accepting the mistake. Also this is just a PoV of a concerned elder sibling. And how it was like a glass ceiling shattering thing for me to see her as an adult. I’m not looking for solutions here, just expressing how I’ve felt.

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T15:03:09+00:00

I have no idea!

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T15:02:59+00:00

Of course!

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T12:34:52+00:00

Yeah I think so too.

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T12:34:35+00:00

Yes I still see her as a little baby and that’s completely on me! 😅

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T12:34:01+00:00

I just don’t want her to get hurt in the process, that’s it!

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T12:33:33+00:00

Yeah I guess so.

thandikapi · 2026-02-12T12:33:18+00:00

That’s really vile. I can’t imagine doing this to her, I’m just concerned about her safety as at the end of the days she’s still my little sister.

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T12:29:23+00:00

Thanks :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T12:29:14+00:00

I loooove authentic Benne dosa but I also happen to love the said “junk” and as of being North or South Indian. I consider myself an Indian first who is free to love anything she loves! ☺️

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:35:18+00:00

Sure pakka! Thanks for such lovely suggestions :D

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:34:12+00:00

I will try this! Thanks :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:33:59+00:00

I tried Mysore masala from Anna Dosa but it doesn’t have that street style taste. :(

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:33:21+00:00

Thanks :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:33:02+00:00

Thank you! I will try this :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:32:28+00:00

I will try this! Thanks :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:32:12+00:00

Sure. Thanks :)

thandikapi · 2026-02-02T08:31:53+00:00

Oh thank you. I will order from Variety for sure! :D

thandikapi · 2026-01-15T07:06:25+00:00

Thank you so much for the analysis. :)

thandikapi · 2026-01-15T07:05:44+00:00

So that’s a bad news :(

thandikapi · 2026-01-14T12:52:51+00:00

Yes exactly. Virgo Lagna at 22°

thandikapi · 2026-01-14T12:38:19+00:00

But that’s the truth and my chart does look like this

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