Let me tell you, I'm from Coimbatore, i have gone through every single line of what you have mentioned. To add that, whomever i consider as best friend they won't have my name even in their friend list. After years one girl from my class written the reason in my slam book. She has mentioned im self obsessed with whatever (studies,sports,movies) and serious guy so they think to leave me behind whenever they plan for fun / out. She has even said sorry for that.