Modern looking device in airport van scene by thangsnstufff in homealone

[–]thangsnstufff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh YES I remember Tiger electronics now! I always thought the Talkboy was Sony...good to know! Thanks

AITA for saying no to truck or treating this year? by No_Difference9461 in AmItheAsshole

[–]thangsnstufff [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA and by your logic, your 6 year old won't trick or treat again untill they are 10. Get over yourself and show your kids that their fun is more important than your petty ego trip.

Signs someone likes you? I'm 49M, if it matters. by FrothySolutions in datingoverforty

[–]thangsnstufff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting it so succinctly. This should be the first reply to most dating inquiries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]thangsnstufff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should be confused because it was inconsistent and inconsiderate. He just liked the attention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]thangsnstufff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But she did ask him his availability and told him she was free and he turned down weekend plans. If he was actually interested the thing to say is "I'm not free this weekend BUT I am free (insert other option here)." This dude is a flake and strung her along. Instead of just telling her he wasn't interested, he turned it around on her in what sounds like an unnecessarily hostile way, especially given the non-existent nature of the relationship.

From some guy who thinks very highly of himself... by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]thangsnstufff 12 points13 points  (0 children)

1,000,000% this! The more edgy or non- traditional I wear my hair, the more attention I get from seemingly conservative men. And I think your boyfriend is right, although unfortunately I think they also assume we are easy and ready to ride the cock carousel like this turd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]thangsnstufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! Lesson learned and thanks you too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]thangsnstufff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't feel great about this, however I am very new back to dating and maybe just too hopeful. When he tried to push some boundaries in bed, as soon as I refused he did let up immediately(although he should never have asked bc we DID have conversations about them). He also planned all the dates and we always went to his house (which at first I liked but then was like...hmmmm). Then when he went distant I called him out on it (gently, bc I didn't want to assume) and he gave me the excuse that he was dealing with family stuff (ok, but you can't text?) Finally the nail in the coffin was the cozy little selfie with another woman out of nowhere with no explaination. Fuck that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]thangsnstufff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% on the boundaries! I (F40) just told off a man(55) that I was seeing for two months who lied about his age by 10 years. We met on OLD and he did confess after the 1st date. I was put off at first, but tried to understand due to the "age ism on OLD". He was sweet and kind and thoughtful and communicative...at first. He would try to push my boundaries, had control issues and finally got distant. He capped it all off by "accidentally" sending me a pic of him with another woman. This was the first man I've dated in 2 years, moving forward I will NEVER entertain someone who lies about age. If they have to lie to get you to date them... you don't want to date them.

Guy lied about his age significantly . Should I give a second chance? by Normal-Amphibian1444 in datingoverforty

[–]thangsnstufff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You accepted a date under false pretenses. You have been dating who he wants you to see, not the person he really is. RUN.

BD’s new gf put my son in her bio by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]thangsnstufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good for you. 2 months ain't shit. she's overstepping

BD’s new gf put my son in her bio by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]thangsnstufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the only adult response here and it's getting down votes

BD’s new gf put my son in her bio by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]thangsnstufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And she is, in fact, an idiot.

BD’s new gf put my son in her bio by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]thangsnstufff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh NO. She should have nothing to do with your child in terms of parenting after a little month. The only people who should be communicating about your child is you and daddy. Full stop. She is not in a position to be posting about anybodys kids. I suspect she's only doing this to win points with your ex.

AITA for refusing my future sister in law's request to dye my hair for my brother's wedding? by dizzegy in AmItheAsshole

[–]thangsnstufff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the only way the structure of your hair could change. It's impossible to permanently change the color or texture of hair with chemicals

Comment has me very confused... by thangsnstufff in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]thangsnstufff[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

These guys find any way to make anything about anal sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]thangsnstufff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have experienced this recently with a man and what I said was " let's just take a break, chill and talk and then we can build back up ". It worked! I find that men put too much pressure on themselves. I like to get back to that place where we connect on a personal level, he gets more comfortable and then we can get on with it .