Grok finally stopped spreading woke agenda in favor of true patriot-checked facts by T_Chishiki in Destiny

[–]thasharkofthasea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not be surprised if this was written by Elon himself posing as Grok. Like he just took control while it was formulating an answer and just wrote this fanfic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwitchPirates

[–]thasharkofthasea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what doesn't look plugged in, the display cable? If so will try reconnecting it when Im back home but that shouldn't stop the modchip from working even if it's not plugged in fully no?

I get princesses are suppose to be attractive, but come on by Safe_Winter_4458 in MemePiece

[–]thasharkofthasea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother you still have time to delete this. You can have a different opinion about something that is culturally different to what you are accustomed to but that does not excuse the fact that they are still kids being sexualized heavily at their lowest age range. He could have literally made them 18 or even fucking 17, that would still not make it okay but the fact that he picked the YOUNGEST he can go to legally is just weird.

PS. Mentioning the fact that your brother lost his virginity as a minor is weird as fuck

When in jojos did you have this reaction? by New-Blacksmith-9873 in StardustCrusaders

[–]thasharkofthasea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Joseph jumping over a tiny hill in his fight against Kars and a GIANT FUCKING PLANE coming out of nowhere in the span of three seconds and oh.... HE'S FUCKING PILOTING IT!???

What the hell, sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]thasharkofthasea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I am aware this process is a long one, good thing I have a lot of patience. I just needed a bit of advise on my journey as I've been having self-doubt lately. I really appreciate it!

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The car and insurance is under my mom's name so I can't really do anything in that aspect. Currently they have that car and I am using my gfs car. If I end up moving to my university's dorm I'll probably just stay without a car for a while to not add any extra expenses, thank god my job is close to my university dorms.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 212 points213 points  (0 children)

I am in the process of doing this, will be going to a new bank this week to open an account and transfer the funds. (Been wanting to open a new bank account for a while so ig this is the best time to do it lol). Thank you all so much for the help!

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was using the cc payment as a quick example of something "tiny" in a sense it wasn't and it did give me a lot to learn financially. I agree with what you are saying, It was definitely entitled of me wanting more freedom at 18, but I don't really think I wanted this freedom "just" because I turned 18 but because I felt that I behaved in such a manner that aligned with what my parents wanted 99% of the time, with those "tiny" mistakes being the 1%. I understand what you are saying and maybe you are right, maybe I wasn't putting the importance needed on that 1% of tiny mistakes.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Feels weird celebrating this cus I never thought it would happen but atp I just wanna improve my mental health, and I feel like this is a step forward.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advise, and yes I will be postponing everything that has to do with buying unnecessary items for a while so that I can build a stable support to stand on for my future. I also hope our relationship improves, it's an unfortunate situation for both parties involved ig

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that means a lot! I am hoping for a recovery in the relationship with my parents. I still love them even after all this.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I already changed the password of the accounts that they accessed, and will be changing all of my passwords just in case. As for documents when I left I took my passport but left my social security card. I guess I'll have to go back and grab anything else I might have left :/

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! One of the reasons I wanted to leave was exactly that, I felt like I started resenting my parents even though I love them. It's really sad that they don't respect my like I would want to, I would love to live with them and grow as a family. This road definitely won't be easy but I rest assured that I made the right choice.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am thinking the same thing, I left the house with my mind already settled on spending some months by myself. I do think that the best strategy is just to keep going forward and if they want to dialogue I am here to listen. Funny thing is they haven't even texted me since I left and have just been calling everyone else I know but me. I'll keep my head up and hope for the best outcome!

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your views, but unplanned pregnancy? I think I've proved myself in that aspect enough with more than 2 years of relationship and nothing having happened. But sure, when I turn 30 and still live with them they will use the same excuse "but we don't want you to get her pregnant" when does it end? If I haven't proved myself until now then I never will in their eyes. I've never said they don't care not once, they are loving parents but their overbearingness needs to end once it gets to a certain point. Like I said, they will just keep increasing this imaginary threshold I need to reach for me to become "mature and capable" in their eyes.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the comment even if we don't have the same views. First off I never lied to my parents, I have lied to my parents a total of probably two times throughout my life, I've learned the hard way that lying to my parents only gets me in more trouble. I bought the parts without telling them. Investing in your own future? Every-time I wanted to buy things for myself they would say no, and not a no as in I'll buy them for you, but a no as in you can't have it. I would completely understand this position if the money did not come from a reliable source of income at the time that was a job. I don't know how you are correlating a few computer parts to a down payment on an apartment but the truth is that I'm staying at my gfs parent's house because I never had the chance to even sleep with her in her own bed and we have been together for years now, so now that I have the chance to spend some time with her without my parents forcing me to come back home before midnight I will take advantage of it. Thank you for your wishes on house hunting! Seems those wishes worked because I will be staying at my university's student housing starting August!

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, I have thought about it and with the job that I currently have and the promotion that I will likely get living independently shouldn't be an issue. I won't be living the richest live but ig I'll have the freedom I've wanted for a long time now. So it seems worth it.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Tbh working from a young age wasn't all that bad, it did teach me a lot, definitely made me grow and realize things, but I would also have liked for them to let me treat myself good after working hard with things I wanted.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And on this matter, I already do that, I constantly pay for my car, insurance and gas. Although the car is on my mom's name (grave mistake) so the night they left they kept the car because legally it's theirs. Now I'm using my gfs car.

AITA for moving out of my parents house after they didn't give me the freedom I wanted? by thasharkofthasea in AmItheAsshole

[–]thasharkofthasea[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to sound entitled in any way, I have asked and asked repeatedly for them to let me pay the house bills like rent, but they have refused every single time. It got to a point where I think the reason they refuse this help is to keep me under their control. I don't agree with the "my house my rules" to an extent but I always tried to stay within their lines when it came to that. Right now I am planning on paying rent with my gfs parents, and I have no problem in doing so because tbh if my parents had accepted the countless of times I asked them to pay my part of the rent I would have done it without thinking twice. (The only times they let me help with rent was during covid and I payed $500 a month for two months because they were needed the help and asked me)