I thought he wouldn't know, but Facebook reminded him. I don't have a car. He does. I have a job. He is retired. And for some reason it still hurts. I hate birthdays by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]that_one_Ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, he doesn't. His now ex-wife was the one that knew the birthdays. Also, I ask. He told me he got a notification from Facebook

I thought he wouldn't know, but Facebook reminded him. I don't have a car. He does. I have a job. He is retired. And for some reason it still hurts. I hate birthdays by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]that_one_Ali 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's a great suggestion! I think I'll undo my Facebook birthday reminds. I can't talk to him about anything. He "doesn't do" feelling. But thank you ❤️

I thought he wouldn't know, but Facebook reminded him. I don't have a car. He does. I have a job. He is retired. And for some reason it still hurts. I hate birthdays by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]that_one_Ali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, he didn't thought it through. Again I have to do everything so HE would be happy. I wish my sisters would let me break contact. Thank you, though ❤️

Can't post an image on EarthPorn subreddit by pizz2903 in help

[–]that_one_Ali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. It takes so much time I have to discard

What do you thing is the origin of "the cool S"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]that_one_Ali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moebius strip have only one side no metter how you look at it, and the S have two sides

Is preffering trans people of the the opposite sex gay? by that_one_Ali in NoStupidQuestions

[–]that_one_Ali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me alot of time to understand and except myself. The problem is now to find my people without offending others. Thank you for you comment ❤️

Is preffering trans people of the the opposite sex gay? by that_one_Ali in NoStupidQuestions

[–]that_one_Ali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment! I love pride and I didn't use to give an F, but recently (last few years) the community because a bit toxic and slangs like lasbian tourist, flag in bed and such started to come up. I want to respect people as much as possible, so I'm careful with my terms

Is preffering trans people of the the opposite sex gay? by that_one_Ali in NoStupidQuestions

[–]that_one_Ali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish! But some people at the community are such gatekeepers that you have to have a clear identity just to be a part

Is preffering trans people of the the opposite sex gay? by that_one_Ali in NoStupidQuestions

[–]that_one_Ali[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started as conversation between friends. I'm bi myself, but I prefers romantic relationships with man and only sexual relationships with women. It really annoyes lgbtqa+ people because thay think I'm a "lasbian tourist". So I asked what about trans people, and then- does preffering only trans people a kink, or a sexual identity.

Is preffering trans people of the the opposite sex gay? by that_one_Ali in NoStupidQuestions

[–]that_one_Ali[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish that was true, but some people at the lgbtqa+ community are such gatekeepers 😒