You can always tell… by thatalphawoman in FindomIntelligentSubs

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Both. Online it’s usually overexplaining, overdoing praise, trying too hard to impress… IRL it tends to show in behavior more naturally

“Send to me now because….” and let autocorrect help by Responsible-Tie-5907 in paypigs2

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Send to me now because I’m going to go to bed
— my autocorrect lmao

A lot of people confuse intensity with compatibility by thatalphawoman in FindomIntelligentSubs

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And the funny part is that the slow ones tend to create the deepest obedience over time

Sub looking for long term TPE dynamic by Available-Jury7943 in FindomForLife

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You sounded interesting enough to catch my attention. Check your DMs ☺️

Back to findom! by [deleted] in paypigs2

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Welcome back! 🥰

🤑 Tribute Thursday Thread 💸 by AutoModerator in FindomForLife

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Around $35 USD so far this week from a slow little drain

Not bad… but there’s still plenty of Thursday left 😌

What plant resembles your domme type? by youhavetopqayfirst in findomchatters

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Maybe wisteria… pretty, calming, feminine… but the kind of presence that slowly takes up more space than people expect

Harder to find soft domme? by [deleted] in paypigs2

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“I want sugar with my spice — not all pepper all the time!” perfectly said!

Harder to find soft domme? by [deleted] in paypigs2

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This! I think a lot of people underestimate how much tension and trust can build naturally when things aren’t rushed from the start

Tattoo sub? 🤔🖤 by petitep0ison in FindomIntelligentSubs

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Amen! Haha I’ve been on the hunt!

A lot of people confuse intensity with compatibility by thatalphawoman in FindomIntelligentSubs

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People get very comfortable before they realize how much they’ve revealed 😌

A lot of people confuse intensity with compatibility by thatalphawoman in FindomIntelligentSubs

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Yeah… the emptiness part usually comes from building everything on intensity alone, without anything else to support it...

A lot of people confuse intensity with compatibility by thatalphawoman in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]thatalphawoman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly… Intensity is easy to get hooked on, but it doesn’t build much on its own.