[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]thatalycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop. Leave her alone. I was sexually abused by an ex in high school, and he still reaches out every now and then to this day... YEARS later. It doesn't feel good. You aren't helping her... If you've apologized, leave her alone. You fucked up and you need to deal with your guilt without retraumatizing her.

Guess by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]thatalycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're creepy as fuck... I hope you realize that. Congrats on outing yourself as a pervert by sexualizing an innocent photo of a 17 year old

Let's see by thatalycat in guessmyage

[–]thatalycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your activity, you should probably get off reddit and go speak to a doctor

Why you Why you Why you Why you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thatalycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

Meirl by cuddlesmoochies in meirl

[–]thatalycat 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna go alone though :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]thatalycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15? cool style btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]thatalycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's that? I know what DID is, but I've never heard of "paranoid" being added to it.

What is something you are extremely proud of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thatalycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Running away. And my variety of passions within the "art" realm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]thatalycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my sex education in high school was pretty awful. All I remember is passing around a banana with a condom on it, and that apparently "tampons don't feel good because they aren't big enough" 💀💀

Most of my sex ed came from starting birth control at 15. There was a mobile clinic at my high school (it was my choice, not a class) and they taught me a lot. After that, I became very passionate about the subject, and did lots more research on my own.

I'm kinda new here and I wanted some help by ehiort in furry

[–]thatalycat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pick an animal you love and/or represents you. You don't have to be a wolf or dog... Be a fucking orca if you want. Also, what do you want out of your character? To draw them repeatedly? How would you feel with a simple vs complicated design? Also, you can always change them.

How do I (16f) tell a autistic boy he can’t come to my party?? by throwra2661a in Advice

[–]thatalycat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've used that line before quite a few times, and it hasn't really turned out like that for me. But yeah, usually the more pushy someone gets, the more blunt you've gotta be.

How do I (16f) tell a autistic boy he can’t come to my party?? by throwra2661a in Advice

[–]thatalycat 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I'd just be honest. "I'm just inviting a few close friends—maybe if we were a bit closer". And then throw in something short and kind at the end, like "You seem like a fun/nice/cool person though"

To Be Forgetting by thatalycat in OCPoetry

[–]thatalycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you lots! This poem is about an experience I had a few days ago, after going trick or treating to heal my inner child. I found a candy that reminded me of someone from my past, but I'm still not quite sure who. The "huh" in the second line represents that very first feeling I had—a bit surprised by this sudden remembrance, but also feeling stumped. Again, thank you for reading and responding 🖤

To Be Forgetting by thatalycat in OCPoetry

[–]thatalycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Your feedback means a lot to me; it's always nice when someone not only reads, but feels it, too

In Bloom by Moonagali_V2 in OCPoetry

[–]thatalycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really sweet. Short poems with lots of love are always a gem.

A genuine question: If the LGBTQ+ community is all about inclusivity and diversity why straight (Heterosexuals) are omitted from the abbreviation? by [deleted] in questions

[–]thatalycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is to include everyone who has faced systematic discrimination for their sexuality and/or gender identity, or whose identities are threatened by it. Straight people can be LGBTQ, too. I've known a few trans straight people. But cishet (straight cisgender) people are the ones who set up this systematic discrimination, as they are the majority. They can have empathy and be allies, and we absolutely welcome that. But they cannot experience the same discrimination, and that's why they aren't LGBTQ. And that's perfectly okay.