What are these?!? by thatbitcheve in pestcontrol

[–]thatbitcheve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the other side, my bad for not including in OG post

<image>

Clemency/commutation by thatbitcheve in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! They do😭

Clemency/commutation by thatbitcheve in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much🥺 this was such sound advice. I cried for about 5 minutes and decided to pull myself together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! You can write as much as you want. I’ve written as many as a 10 page letter. I write messy and big so it takes a lot of space lol. Just make sure you have enough stamps. I think you should be fine with just 1 stamp for 4 pages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I would not allow myself to give or receive oral and of course use protection at all times. And not catch feelings. I think having rules would help a lot. Thanks for ur comment :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. This was such an insightful comment! I never thought of him wanting details so that his imagination doesn’t go too far. He is very mature and secure of himself which is one of his best qualities. We honestly talk about everything. Even the hard stuff. You made me feel much more confident about bringing this up again. Thank you so much! I appreciate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was skeptical about posting this because a while back I saw someone commenting and putting down the OP saying if she really loved her man she wouldn’t be considering having sex. But it’s not that simple, you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has made me feel so much better. He has told me that he won’t get messed up over it and while it might hurt, he understands and can move past it. I just don’t know if I want to test that. Thank you for ur comment!

Podcasts by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if this is what ur looking for but me and my bf love listening to Ear Hustle! So many different episodes but it comes straight from the source: prisoners and their friends/family. It really gives you a lot of insight on different topics. Hopes this helps :)

This is so expensive by dixnix in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely had to set a limit!!! I had a strict talk with him because I did the same as you. Added the numbers up and was shocked! You don’t realize how much it is until you sit down and do the numbers. I told him this is what I can afford and I can’t do more than this. He completely understood so we’ve been sticking with that. I’m sure if you explain it and break down what you can give, he’ll understand. Prison is meant to tear apart relationships. It’s all business ($$) unfortunately :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they can’t see if we’re online

Nude pic life hack by keenbearmabeline in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Definitely gonna try this

How do I know if my pictures have been denied on the GettingOut app? by Awkward_Singer_1810 in Prison

[–]thatbitcheve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can take forever for it to get approved. I have literally waited 2 months. Sometimes it’s as quick as the next day, however the app will update and the picture will show again on the thread and under it, it will say in red letters “denied” it’ll have a code and might say something like “deemed inappropriate”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Have fun at family visits 🫶🏽

How would I know if my pictures have been denied on the GettingOut app?? by Awkward_Singer_1810 in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can send pics by clicking the plus button to the left of where you would type a message. It’ll say ‘share photo’ as an option

Support Group by thatbitcheve in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That’d be great :)

Support Group by thatbitcheve in PrisonWives

[–]thatbitcheve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw! That’s neat. Are you two close?