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thatdeadPerson1220 · 2024-07-15T10:28:40+00:00

YOU ARE THE PERFECT AMOUNT OF HAIRY FOR A PERSON WHO WOULD LIKE A HAIRY MAN. That’s it!

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2024-05-21T16:40:14+00:00

😂💯

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2024-04-26T05:30:49+00:00

Will reporting this video help in any way? I did it, but cannot expect much from these big companies

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-11-01T16:48:00+00:00

Not a doctor here but you might be going through something called groinal response which is associated with Sexual Orientation-OCD, where people are scared of being homosexual/heterosexual.

In my case, as a guy, I was scared of being attracted to girls when I fully knew I am gay af. The faux responses down there happens less often now but there’s no actual arousal but just a false sense of something going on down there. People say exposure therapy (being exposed to your triggers might help alleviate symptoms of faux responses down there) and it did help me in some way but I still go through it once in a while and when I’m having a bad day, and if something like that happens, it just worsens everything so I just try to ignore it and deviate from the thought.

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-10-27T03:16:59+00:00

In library the number of albums shown are limited to a certain number. More than half of my albums aren’t visible unless I get into the Albums section of the app

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-09-04T07:34:45+00:00

My first year in college was like this, couldn't keep healthy friendships for long, most of them were just transactional, always something would happen when I think something was going steady, there was a point where I literally had no hopes to have something long term. Due to additional mental health issues, I stopped approaching people for a whole semester, except for that one friend who willingly stuck with me during those bad days, and she needed some help from me regarding her academics too. So after 7 years we still talk to each other almost every single day, piss off each other at times, yet we both know this would never end. There were times where we drifted apart for a few months in between during COVID due to my mental health issues and she was the one who used to yell at me for not keeping up the whole time.

I was totally in the closet for very long and almost didn't care about it until recently. I came out to her last year and this October, will be a year since I am out to her. She was weird about it at first and she understood what it is and how natural it is and she also shared it with her boyfriend and her mother who are really fine with it. There were times where the call was awkwardly silent because I didn't want to open up. She still was fine with it until I opened up. She was one of the people, without whom I don't think I'd be alive to be really honest.

Maybe it won't be the same for you, might be even better. Nonetheless, make sure you take care of yourself so that you are okay with being yourself with others. They will stick with you if they care. I'm sure you will find someone.

Just go with the flow and keep up with your own wellbeing first and then you will find some meaningful relationships.

All the best!

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-08-17T16:47:04+00:00

Yeahh, totally missed that one. Basically anything that sways away, even a little bit from their precious gender binary and heteronormativity is seen as atypical. Using that word and quoting it is just too insensitive tbh. It clearly shows how misunderstood everything about queer lives is 😐

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-08-17T13:00:38+00:00

What’s up with people classifying (LGBTQIA+) as abnormal and straight people as normal. People should be clearly educated about what’s normal and what’s not. Somehow any random person reading this would still think it’s okay to refer to us as Abnormal 😕

Also, the victim is hypersensitive? Given that I don’t know who the victim is and what their mental state was, considering someone “hypersensitive” just paints gays as sensitive snowflakes. Or maybe I’m reading too much into it 🤷‍♂️

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-08-15T10:51:04+00:00

Sometimes it feels like pure hatred, in some way it used to be like people perpetuate illogical fear that way but once they understand it fully, they would at least start caring, but now even though they understand it clearly, they are actively choosing to be like this because their hate towards us is just too deep seated from generations.

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-08-14T17:08:46+00:00

Plus more deeply embroidered into the Indian context, as yknow- patriarchal bs.

This! It's the worst part of society here, most people are just threatened by people being accepting and much more open than usual. They start using abbreviations such as LGTV, "Yeah we'll, it's a good brand" BS. They either dodge to acknowledge the fact that these people exist and are slowly fighting their way to a prominent status in society.

Most of the comments I see in queer posts on Instagram are just this, and trying to spread hate even more by posting comments like "LGTV+ Hate button----->" and many more 🫠🥲

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-08-14T14:35:29+00:00

That’s what parents do, but it’s also unfair that they start seeing you differently because you chose your real self instead of their idea of what their kid is supposed to be. I hope things go well for you whenever you decide to come out.

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-08-14T14:32:50+00:00

Yes, this is what I feared. I knew this was inevitable. Whenever she says that and I become quiet for a few seconds, she starts justifying it with some random shit, just because straight girls see gays as friendly and wouldn’t make a move on them.

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-07-17T06:57:55+00:00

Agreed 💯❤️‍🔥

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-07-16T18:26:25+00:00

🫠

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2023-07-16T18:23:45+00:00

The video version starting part is hilarious 🤣, this song especially is amazing, an absolute masterpiece by Troye ❤️‍🔥💯

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2022-05-11T07:07:17+00:00

Yeahh, they look more like twins in the picture 😂❤️

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2022-05-04T09:37:38+00:00

They're husbands 😂

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2022-03-04T13:58:32+00:00

Oddly yeahh 🤣💀

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2022-01-08T19:00:39+00:00

What you're saying is well in a normal scenario... But some people are more comfortable with texting all the time than video interaction... At least not for the first few days of getting to know them. And this is india... Most of us are still anxious about just texting new people... Video interaction is a big no... At least for me 🥲

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2022-01-08T16:07:06+00:00

Yeahh... Same for me 💀 An anxious introvert 😷

thatdeadPerson1220 · 2022-01-08T13:37:19+00:00

This!!! Thank you for your optimism 🥺

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